Overwhelmed by uncertainty about where i am now..feels like i healed parts of me but feels also i have much more work to do on myself..being a mother that doesn t know yet how to discipline her kids without hurting them..being not very disciplined myself..
yes..i mean do we have to not use false altruism as a self serving motive..for ex i have to convince my kid to go to school everyday..i hate doing that but i have to..so i tell myself that it s for his good bc after all he would need to read and write..
i feel like there could be a nuance between false altruism and the self serving motivation tip that Teal made lately...in other words when it is false altruism and when it s the self serving motivation?
Thank you so much Teal..I am a mom too and benefit from your insights on parenting..since then i think i am in better relationship with my kids. btw my first son is born the same day as Winter, 23/06/2009..and I am born in 1984 like you too