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Who or what do I blame?

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From "100 Of The Most Powerful Questions You Can Ask Yourself"

Nothing has the power to completely alter perspective and therefore your thoughts and actions and life quite like a question. Inquiry leads to understanding. The quality of the answers we arrive at, correspond directly to the quality of question we ask. The better the question, the better the answer. One of the most important things to realize about a question is that a person learns far, far more from the process and work involved in answering a question than from the answer itself. This is why spiritual teachers throughout history (including myself) have tended to pose so many questions to their students rather than to simply offer a direct answer. For this reason, I have selected a collection of 100 of the most powerful questions that you can ask yourself.

Make sure to take time to carefully consider each question that is posed in order to meaningfully answer them. And don’t forget to come back to these questions again and again throughout your life, especially whenever you are feeling stuck, because the answers will most likely change over the course of your life and also cause you to change your course in life.

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I blame myself (and even my unconscious self) for having some “glass walls” which  stop me from getting an abundance. (Ok, so.. parts work it is!).
 

I also blame myself & my partner for not getting enough resources for our son.

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I blame my parents for not seeing me or helping Me. I especially feel angry with my dad since he he’s blaming me for demanding to come here(to live with him) even though He know this was my only option to be able to survive, literally(I’m sick and also have no income).  
 

I blame him for not treating me like a person, with needs and wants. That he decides on whether I can have my needs met, which makes me feel unsafe and scared. So yeah, definitely blaming him for feeling that. I also blame my mum for her not taking in critisism(turns it back on me very quickly), cause I really need her to know how I’ve been affected so I can have a better relationship with her and also so she can actually help me. 
 

I also see that if I would’ve had more strong and solid boundaries, It wouldn’t have gotten this far. 
 

Gonna try to be more solid(though it’s so hard as I’m sick and barely want to continue), and try to reach my mum again about how I feel and what I need. I’m so scared I won’t be able to do it/not do it properly though. Wish me luck, thanks.

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Thanks for the support!!!:) What do you mean out of control here?

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Thanks a lot for the validation! The struggle is real since I don’t know how to go forward and get the help I need. Thanks for reaching out. x

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Right now no one, nothing and otherwise well it starts with me and it ends with me. while me is everything and everyone, life itself. But life is beautiful in the end, this which I can not name now, yet, maybe never. This is amazing* Wonderful, beautiful, magical because it is. To be is what I do not blame because I want it. ❤️

 

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There's no one to blame..its a shit scenario that I got caught up in...ya I could blame my mother, circumstance, god, the fates etc but man it was all on me..nobody made me do anything..I did it..I am responsible and I have to live with my choices....it sickens me but no one in to blame but me and even then anyone would have struggled in that scenario....I just got selfish and greedy and having been through what I have I can't blame myself for that...to grab on with both hands to a tiny bit of love I was given is human...especially having been starved of it all along....how can you ask more of me there like...I'm just sorry that I dragged her through the mud....she showed me kindness and look what it got her...sheer destruction...incredibly rank..and I have to live with that 

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I blame my own expectations of others. The reflection of a reflection that turns into an infinite loop. With no end to how far from the reality of what the object of my expectations is really capable of.

And when i say others i do include my ego as well.

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My parents, if they'd given me up for adoption, I would've gotten the chance to have real actual parents. 

I'm an orphan basically, both just stayed because of status (and to abuse and misuse us). I wish Id never known my biological parents.

This is to me even worse than orphanage. (and I've been thinking this way the last 25 years) I'm 28.

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An imaginary belief system built to confrom and be 'right'. Family for their absence, and not acting on what I truly want. I mean, they put me on drugs from the age of six lol. It is part of the good reason I've left. Love feeling loved and don't want to keep the cycle going.

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