The self-help community and the spiritual community is littered with people whose needs were not met by their primary caregivers and by successive relationships in their life. After all, look at the word self-help. One only turns to self-help when there is no one else there to help them, but themselves.
It is very easy for people who have been forced into a position of self-sufficiency to use spiritual truths to bypass this original pain in their lives and use that suppressed grief to justify a state of avoidance to attaching to and depending on others. This belief blinds them to the truth of interdependence and it prevents them from seeing the bigger picture. A bigger picture where the universe is trying to provide us with the opportunity to heal our relationship with ourselves by mirroring the pain contained within our relationship with ourselves through our relationship with others...instead of trying to push us into a state of independent self-sufficiency. What we need to enable people to find is not independence, it is self trust and symbiosis.
Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel - used by permission http://www.sacreddream.comIf you are in a crisis or if you or any other person may be in danger - don't use this site.
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