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  1. In this Self Awareness Exercise, you will take a look at your relationship to every aspect of your life. We are in relationships with everything, and have negative and positive associations with them. So here you can discover through this authentic Relationship Exercise your true feelings and why you may or may not be attracting what you want into your life. Teal Swan is an International Contemporary Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, authenticity, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: www.tealswan.com For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join TealSwan.com/premium Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thespiritualcatalyst/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealspiritualcatalyst/?hl=en Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: https://tealswan.com/newsletter Completion Process Book: https://thecompletionprocess.com/#the-book Teal's Meditations: https://gumroad.com/tealswan Teal's e-shop: tealswan.com/teals-products Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/9Hq9/
  2. If your relationships feel bad and you want to improve your relationships, a good thing to become aware of is: The Triangle From Hell. It is rooted in negative relationship dynamics and social dynamics. It involves a victim, villain and hero. Teal Swan explains that if you aren't careful you can fall into the hero, villain or victim dynamic and triangulate in your own relationships. Teal Swan is an International Contemporary Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, authenticity, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: www.tealswan.com For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join TealSwan.com/premium Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thespiritualcatalyst/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealspiritualcatalyst/?hl=en Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: https://tealswan.com/newsletter Completion Process Book: https://thecompletionprocess.com/#the-book Teal's Meditations: https://gumroad.com/tealswan Teal's e-shop: tealswan.com/teals-products Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/9Hq9/
  3. bennymary1

    how dr gbojie helped me stop my divorce What a wonderful and a straight forward spell caster that has brought back joy and happiness into my life!!! Am giving this testimony because am so happy, I want to thank Dr. gbojie for the great thing He has done in my life , He brought happiness back to my life, I never believed in spell casters until my life fell apart when my lover of 6 years decided to call it quit almost when we wanted to get married. I was so emotional breakdown to the extent i could not do anything reasonable again, after 3months in pain before an old friend of mine introduced me to a spell caster on line called Dr gbojie, this was after I have been scammed by various fake spell casters. I was introduced to Dr gbojie a true Spell Caster. In less than 38 hours i saw wonders, my lover came back to me and my life got back just like a completed puzzle, and after 1month later we got married and it was just like a dream to me because i thought i had lost him forever. Thank you Dr. gbojie for helping me but most of all, Your Honesty and Fast Accurate Results. EMAIL HIM FOR HELP: gbojiespiritualtemple@gmail.com or gbojiespiritualtemple@yahoo.com : through his number +2349066410185. You can also read my testimony on his website: http://gbojiespelltemple.wordpress.com . ARE THE THINGS DR GBOJIE CAN THESE ALSO CURE.. GONORRHEA, HIV/AIDS , LOW SPERM COUNT, MENOPAUSE DISEASE, PREGNANCY PROBLEM, SHORT SIGHTEDNESS PROBLEM, Stroke, Bring back ex lover or wife/husband..
  4. Are you codependent, trying to heal from codependency or have a partner that is codependent? Teal Swan talks about how being codependent actually has nothing to do with dependency. It is actually just a relationship style and you deal with people on a relationship level. Teal Swan is an International Contemporary Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, authenticity, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: www.tealswan.com For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join TealSwan.com/premium Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thespiritualcatalyst/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealspiritualcatalyst/?hl=en Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: https://tealswan.com/newsletter Completion Process Book: https://thecompletionprocess.com/#the-book Teal's Meditations: https://gumroad.com/tealswan Teal's e-shop: tealswan.com/teals-products Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/9Hq9/ Help us caption & translate this video! https://amara.org/v/kOQz/
  5. In this episode of Ask Teal, Teal Swan talks about How to Create a Safe Relationship and gives relationship advice about relationship troubles. We are often distrusting, not committed and fearing of troubles in our relationships. This video will show you how to create a safe relationship. Video References What is Love: 2:24 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L39DzzsixRQ&t=211s Attunemet the key to a good relationship: 2:30 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7OIOkd43ev4&t=396s Compassion and how to cultivate compassion: 2:36 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMUHtuhiVTk&t=180s Stop Trying to Love them and start trying to understand them: 3:15 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pr0SguyqkyQ Own People: 5:07 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RI9iu8j_f5c&t=142s take them as a part of you: 9:22 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8cyazjQXJ8&t=118s Teal Swan is an International Contemporary Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, authenticity, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: www.tealswan.com For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join TealSwan.com/premium Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thespiritualcatalyst/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealspiritualcatalyst/?hl=en Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: https://tealswan.com/newsletter Completion Process Book: https://thecompletionprocess.com/#the-book Teal's Meditations: https://gumroad.com/tealswan Teal's e-shop: tealswan.com/teals-products Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/9Hq9/ Help us caption & translate this video! https://amara.org/v/jggE/
  6. What prevents you from having a real relationship? It may lie in your perception of reality. It may be an overlay. What is reality? What is Fantasy? Is your partner part of your overlay or is he/she part of reality and a reality that is shared? Video References Overlay References: 7:22 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QEdpK2h7dlw Priceless Relationship Advice: 7:33 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFEyEM2OxA4 Projection (Understanding the psychology of projection): 18:24 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9jFBhJSgw0M&t=186s Teal Swan is an International Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, authenticity, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: www.tealswan.com For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join TealSwan.com/premium Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thespiritualcatalyst/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealspiritualcatalyst/?hl=en Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: https://tealswan.com/newsletter Completion Process Book: https://thecompletionprocess.com/#the-book Teal's Meditations: https://gumroad.com/tealswan Teal's e-shop: tealswan.com/teals-products Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/9Hq9/
  7. RELATIONSHIP Problems (unmet needs, boyfriend withdrawals and is emotional unavailable) Hi there, I am not sure what happend in my childhood consciously but I dreamed serval times to be sexual abused by my dad, having secret relationship with him. Went to some memories by myself with CP but still have shame and grief riseing up from time to time after sex (panic attacks, cutting, bulimia was my coping mechanism some years ago). HOW do YOU deal with such trauma in your relationships?? My relationsship felt like a rollercoaster since 4 years now. It is getting more stabil since new year. I put lot of time into understanding me and my partner...and I am happy that I did so because I am more atuned to see behind manipulation, to be okay with differencies, to be okay with my and my partners needs. Sadly I realized that sex is the one need I am not satisfied with in that relationship. It making big problems for me because I found out a pattern in me... that without sex I don´t feel deep connection and value!? I don´t want to give up ...I don´t want to repeat the hurt of my parents, grandparents etc.....I want to stop the circle of suffer in me. I don´t want to let it hurt other people including myself anymore! I want to see my partners beauty instead being throwing back in time....I want to find relief...to be with my boyfriend in the NOW. Yesterday something arises, again..it felt soo painful to me. It was real to me. ...I thought my boyfriend refuses me by watching porn instead living it with me. I felt rejected, hurt, betrayaled. Especially because we have rarely sex these days. We just talked about it and he said to me that he don´t need it so much at the moment. 😕 but I do! Often men want more sex than women didn´t know that it can flip around. But fine I am okay with it..that I am more the needy one. I told him that I can´t be satisfied forever in this relationship when this need of mine is not met. And he felt pressure. (I am open for friendship, open relationship, what ever constallation fits for us...but he is not...he just told me..and it´s very painful for me to loose someone you love only because you have needs he/she can´t met ) He said to me I can´t wait. I feel waiting forever . He reflects so many aspects of my dad...I am waiting for his attention, committment, support, to be seen, to feel beautiful, to be loved as I wanna be loved. When the day is over and I go to bed he goes into his workroom/computer room. My father was the same. But he is not my dad! It is so annoying to feel that, also. So coming back to the situation of yesterday..I was pissed about a "non fact" that my boyfriend is watching porn. And when he came to bed he felt my distance and asked ´what´s up´. Then I reproached that he is satisfiing his sexual needs with porn and I am mad about it. He was very angry because he told me he did not watched it further touched himself. I could not trust. It was so real for me!? He said my mind is playing mindgames. He was hurt. I said "okay, than it has to be a memory of mine.." "I have to go into it" and he said " then do it now!" I tried CP with him...but I felt he wasn´t present with me...he was still hurt 😕 I got a panic attack felt super insecure. He told me I have to stop reacting like this ( he thought I was playing/dramatiseing)..he asked me " do I have I be violent / do I have to hurt you if you don´t stop?"....I felt even more pain, panic...can´t breathe! I cried and start talking after long moment of silence. I told him , please not take it personal, please put the hurt he felt by side because I really need just presents and understanding. My thoughts are not ment to hurt him, please can you see that I am hurt!? At this moment he was a little bit more present and I told him my memory. My father stopped abusing me one day and I still wanted his attention in the form I only knew ( the one that connected us= sex) and he refuses me. It was painful. Sexuallity became something forbidden/secretly. In my teen years I started an interest for the hobby of my dad (computers) to stay connected. He never knew how to emotional connect. Often he promised me to buy icecream or candy so that we could share time with each other, he see him, too..he was really lonley in his world) (I am crying now..dawn why is it so fucked up?) How can I find peace?How can I know what is missing?
  8. The rest of the videos of the workshop can be found here: https://tealswan.com/premium-resources/workshop-videos/online-workshop-march-4-2018-part-12-r99/ Teal Swan and Graciela display channeling chronic pain in this workshop. Graciela plays the part of pain from the questioner in the workshop. Exploring the metaphysical relationship and having a conversation with your pain can be a extraordinarily enlightening perspective on why you are experiencing your pain or physical ailment. Everything in this universe has consciousness including your pain. So why not have a conversation with it? To watch the rest of this Online Synchronization Workshop held March 4th, 2018 join Premium at www.tealswan.com/premium There is an Online Synchronization held Once a month. So get the chance ask your own question to Teal Swan and join :)
  9. Awkward Situation during a tour... Hello! I went on one of the romantic international tours recently and may I say it was just wonderful! The setting, the atmosphere, and the sweet gentlemen. One particularly drew me in. But the only problem I have is what my family would think. I have kept him a secret this far but he has recently proposed. What do you do when your husband to be is older than your father? He is old enough to be my grandfather, but he is so sweet and caring. I love him, I really do. But I am scared and a little embarrassed of what others would think! Especially my family. What should I do?
  10. To view the rest of the workshop please visit https://www.tealswan.com/premium As Teal wraps up the workshop, we run into a Blake's Codependency pattern in his relationship. Things get authentic while Teal explores codependency, narcissism, relationship problems, authenticity, being the good guy, accountability and responsibility. Watch a Codependent acting in his true form at the end of this video. "The idea that I'm not a good person, makes me a better person" This is an excerpt from the March 4th 2018 Online Synchronization Workshop. To view the rest of the workshop please visit https://www.tealswan.com/premium
  11. Owning People and Taking ownership of your relationships involves a different look at possession and ownership in general. Owning People and ‘To Own’ has a general negative connotation yet the opposite of this has really been damaging our society and relationships. Teal Swan explains in this Ask Teal episode how to own people in the right way. Teal Swan is an International Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, authenticity, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: www.tealswan.com For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join TealSwan.com/premium Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thespiritualcatalyst/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealspiritualcatalyst/?hl=en Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: https://tealswan.com/newsletter Completion Process Book: https://thecompletionprocess.com/#the-book Teal's Meditations: https://gumroad.com/tealswan Teal's e-shop: tealswan.com/teals-products Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/9Hq9/
  12. Do you make relationships a task? This relationship advice or rather relationship awareness revolves around how we feel about our current relationship. Are you feeling bad about your relationship and are you experiencing problems? Teal Swan asks us to consider that perhaps it's because we are treating our relationships like a task. Teal Swan is an International Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: www.tealswan.com For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join TealSwan.com/premium Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thespiritualcatalyst/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealspiritualcatalyst/?hl=en Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: https://tealswan.com/newsletter Completion Process Book: https://thecompletionprocess.com/#the-book Teal's Meditations: https://gumroad.com/tealswan Teal's e-shop: tealswan.com/teals-products Endsong: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/9Hq9/
  13. willing4you100

    Thank you AFA I met Tatiana during AFA’s Singles Tour in Ukraine last year. And to tell you, that was the beginning of a very special journey. While the affair is still ongoing, we decided to meet everyday and date. With the span of one week, I learned to love her. She is so caring, loving, and beautiful. Things went so smooth for the both of us. Even though I’m in the States already, we still managed to do video calls everyday. We talked through phone calls, and chat through messenger. Then finally, I asked her to become my girlfriend. Fortunately, she said “yes”. For one year, I’ve been blessed to meet such person like Tatiana. She is my blessing. She filled that belongingness inside me. She made my life happier. She fills the empty part of my life. Well, thanks to AFA! It has been a pleasure to use their services! They helped me find an ideal woman to marry, their service is just extraordinary! Now, I’m planning to propose to her when I come back to Ukraine next month. What should be the best speech for her? Can you guys give me some idea? I want to be romantic while proposing! A great thanks ahead!
  14. Why your partner may be like your parent? Hi everyone! Lately I`ve been noticing how I am expecting my partner to behave like my father in certain situations and it really freaked me out. I know that we attract partners similar to our opposite sex parents but I have no idea why.. Is it because we have some unresolved issues? And how can we move through this? Have anyone experienced something like this ? I am really curious to understand how this works and why exactly are we attracting those kind of people. I would greatly appreciate if you share some similar experiences. Thank you! Love, Marina
  15. Teal Swan responds to the allegations made against her that she is a fraud, fake, liar and a dangerous cult leader. Teal Swan exposes the truth and is exposed fully in this authentic release of her response to all the hateful allegations made against her. :22 Conflicting Timelines of Abuse 9:50 - Suicide 19:29 - Money + Spirituality 27:40 - Are you a Guru? 35:32 - Law of Attraction 52:19 - Marriage 1:00:00 - Your Pain 1:11:01 - College Dropout 1:14:05 - Plagiarism 1:18:32 - Psychology w/o a License 1:21:10 - Cult or Movement? 1:23:32 - Narcissism 1:29:12 - Shadow Motivations 1:38:46 - Why Address This Now? 1:42:17 - Passion 1:47:00 - Controversy 1:49:09 - What would you say to your haters? Help us caption & translate this video! https://amara.org/v/bzWS/
  16. Why are people mean to me I'm a geniuly nice person, always listen to people try to help them and understand them and I get screwed over and over again by people who are the closest to me. I know the mantra how people treat you is about them not you but I just can't shake it off, this feeling, and that they are taking my energy. This has happened so many times by so many different people that I think I am going crazy. I don't see what am I doing wrong. I am not the kind of person to be rude back, believe me I tried. And just think I can't defend myself. And that there is another perosn trapped in me, just observing everything. I lost myself. Which is the hardest feeling. I'm an introvert and soft spoken person, are people just so fucking corrupted that they take andvantege of the 'weak'. I just can't cut off everybody in my circle. They are probably two people in my circle who treat me with respect. And i don't want to be in the mercy of how other poeple feel. Just dealing with so many shit in my life that this behaviour is just salt to my wound and I keep avoiding people because I am honestly sick of it. How to attract good company. What am I doing wrong. Is it my energy. I think I have good energy, when I am alone I feel fine, but when in company people keep intruding my space till the point I have to physically push back against them. The final straw was when I had a schoolmate we always talked on hallways, laugh, got along good, and then I met her in party with another friend of mine and she literally looked to my friend only, not even a glance in my direction. Like wtf am I here, garbage. And she never showed before that she disliked me or anything, so freaking rude. Why is this happening? It has ruined my self worth.
  17. bennymary1

    how dr gbojie helped me stop my divorce What a wonderful and a straight forward spell caster that has brought back joy and happiness into my life!!! Am giving this testimony because am so happy, I want to thank Dr. gbojie for the great thing He has done in my life , He brought happiness back to my life, I never believed in spell casters until my life fell apart when my lover of 6 years decided to call it quit almost when we wanted to get married. I was so emotional breakdown to the extent i could not do anything reasonable again, after 3months in pain before an old friend of mine introduced me to a spell caster on line called Dr gbojie, this was after I have been scammed by various fake spell casters. I was introduced to Dr gbojie a true Spell Caster. In less than 38 hours i saw wonders, my lover came back to me and my life got back just like a completed puzzle, and after 1month later we got married and it was just like a dream to me because i thought i had lost him forever. Thank you Dr. gbojie for helping me but most of all, Your Honesty and Fast Accurate Results. EMAIL HIM FOR HELP: gbojiespiritualtemple@gmail.com or gbojiespiritualtemple@yahoo.com : through his number +2349066410185. You can also read my testimony on his website: http://gbojiespelltemple.wordpress.com . ARE THE THINGS DR GBOJIE CAN THESE ALSO CURE.. GONORRHEA, HIV/AIDS , LOW SPERM COUNT, MENOPAUSE DISEASE, PREGNANCY PROBLEM, SHORT SIGHTEDNESS PROBLEM, Stroke, Bring back ex lover or wife/husband..
  18. Feeling Inferior to Porn with Partners with Porn Addictions Hello, I have a past where the first relationship I ever had and lost my virginity to, became a cheating relationship and on top of that, it was a relationship where he would compare me to porn stars or to porn or to other beautiful girls in general. After that relationship, I realized I would be triggered with anxiety/negativity/insecurities whenever I would see beautiful women in public, in movies, or when I would catch partners liking porn or saving porn on their computers. That resistance only brought about more relationships with guys who had porn addictions and would make me feel crazy for always feeling so shitty whenever I would see porn or movies with sex scenes or even when we would go to some party or public event and there would be beautiful sexy women walking around. No matter how much I portrayed that I didn't like or approve of them checking these women out (especially following them on social media) or saving pornographic photos and videos on their phones and computers and such, they would consistently do it anyway behind my back and it would cause a bunch of conflict in the relationship. Lately, I have been trying to learn how to not be triggered by porn. I have a partner with a porn addiction who used to follow and comment on porn star's social media, who saves photos of them onto their phone, who would go to the bathroom to jack off to porn before coming to the room to have sex with me, or who would attempt to watch porn while having sex with me and try to make it so I don't see the screen (literally doing it behind my back). When I would try to look, he would just pretend to shove my head into the pillow. This all has made me have trust issues and just made me wonder what other things he hid behind my back and I am always feeling like I am not good enough compared to the girls in porn. I understand resisting this problem keeps bringing it up, so how would one go about not getting triggered by porn anymore? Especially if you want the relationship to work?
  19. Relationships are at the center of conflict in our lives. In this episode, Teal Swan shares a key to creating good relationships. This is priceless relationship advice. The relationship advice given in this video will help you to create a relationship that feels good and in mutually nourishing. Teal Swan offers an elixir to help improve your relationship. Teal Swan is an International Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Register for Premium Content https://tealswan.com/premium-register Website: www.tealswan.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thespiritualcatalyst/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tealspiritualcatalyst/?hl=en Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: https://tealswan.com/newsletter Completion Process Book: https://thecompletionprocess.com/#the-book Teal's Meditations: http://www.jointeallive.com/meditations/ Teal's e-shop: https://gumroad.com/tealswan Endsong Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/9Hq9/
  20. Trapped as the rescuer Hello Tealers! I'm in a deep dilemma regarding my relationship, and you could say i've reached a point where i feel desperate. We met eight monts ago. She was 18, i was 23. I loved her from the beginning, we had a unique chemistry, the most harmonious relationship you could think of. In many ways she is the sweet girl from nextdoor, she's lighthearted, energetic and very child like. The three rows we had in eight months lasted about half an hour and ended in hugging after some tears. That is us. Many nights i helped her with trauma release, it felt good to put my knowledge in shadow work together with my love for her. I don't want to reveal much, but this girl was and still is deeply wounded. The intensity was unparalleled to what i've experienced. Many nights were something between holding her for a few hours in the most extreme pain, to flashbacks where she lost complete connection to reality. Part of why i needed to be with her was the aggravation that she used to be a cutter. Her pain was often so intense that i physically needed to hold her so she couldn't hurt herself. It was always hard to hold my ground in everything, beeing with her with all my consciousness, but i loved her. And it deepened our connection. I don't know if i consciously wanted it, but i became her rescuer. Eight months later. I've lost my romantical feelings towards her and will soon break up with her. I still love her as my best friend. She feels like my little sister. I've reached a point in my life where i feel deeply depressive, pretty much a state in which i can only handle the basic necessities in my life. Shadow work gets super intense for me, i'm getting really deep in my root traumas; life is okay but many days it's hard looking upwards to the light. And i feel like i can't help her. It is just too much. Problem is i am the only one who is there for her. Her parents are an alcoholic mum and a deeply narcistic dad. We had her in a clinic and she has a therapist, but nothing was of true help. Some days i'm sitting on my coach, between tears and raw desperation, and she writes me. Everything in me screams "NO. I can't do it!". She is not even beeing manipulative about it, she comes to me like an innocent crying child. And i take my phone and call her, calm her down and am there for her. And i know in these moments i leave my inner child and go over to hers. I feel so awful some days, but i know she is gonna cut herself if i'm not there for her. Or i rationalize "Her is pain is probably much more unbearable, i need to help her". When she leaves or i hang up the phone i usually cry for us both. Her darkness is additionally hard to hold up against in myself even though i try to lighten her up. A long time i didn't want to admit it to myself but i feel resentful towards her, and it feels horrible because i still love her. I know i have a rescuer personality(helping yourself in others), but i also know that i truly want help her as a friend. And i'm certain if i cut her off, she is going to fall into the darkness. We tried everything, the clinic experience was a disaster, and the many therapist were only of mild help. She needs a bear, and i'm a wounded wolf. She is deeply craving for someone to take care of her. Not that i could even do that, but i'm the last helping hand in her life. She also told me she has suicidal visions, but she promised she wouldn't do anything. We talk a lot, she understands me, sometimes when we say goodbye she supresses her feelings so it wouldn't bother me, and it breaks my heart. I don't know how to keep on going, it eats me up from inside. A big part of me wants to cut her off, another wants to help, it's tearing me apart. That was one novel, but maybe you could get something out of it. Thank you for your thoughts!
  21. The Victim Control Dynamic may be the reason we experience a lot of drama in our own relationships. People tend to alternate between playing 3 roles (like a triangle) in relationships… Either the Victim, the Villain, or the Hero. In this dynamic, a person plays the victim to manipulatively get what they want from other people. Teal Swan is an International Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality. Subscribe to Teal’s newsletters here: http://thespiritualcatalyst.us6.list-manage2.com/subscribe?u=a0c9fbd5534138eb374993029&id=bebf0eebc3 Teal's Web page: http://tealswan.com/ Teal's Meditations: http://www.jointeallive.com/meditations/ Teal's e-shop: https://gumroad.com/tealswan http://www.askteal.com Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel
  22. In this episode, Teal Swan explains a common relationship dynamic that ends relationships. She explains how to put a stop to this dynamic and how to turn things around if it has begun. Teal Swan is an International Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality. Subscribe to Teal’s newsletters here: http://thespiritualcatalyst.us6.list-manage2.com/subscribe?u=a0c9fbd5534138eb374993029&id=bebf0eebc3 Teal's Web page: http://tealswan.com/ Teal's Meditations: http://www.jointeallive.com/meditations/ Teal's e-shop: https://gumroad.com/tealswan http://www.askteal.com Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/3koZ/
  23. Elenazev

    I need some advice Hello everyone So my mother and I have always been subjected to conflict with each other throughout my entire life. We have never related to each other completely and have always been on a completely different page. But we made it work and we still love each other very much. After my awakening however, which has been an intense ride since it began three years ago, our conflicts have increased in number, becoming a regular thing and a greater rift has been formed between us. I can feel how my vibration is raising on a regular basis, and as it continues to do so my mom continues to stay grounded in her low vibration. But we continued to make it work, through all our ever-increasing difficulties until yesterday. Yesterday, I dropped the bomb and could not contain the things I had been feeling towards her for all the recent months I've kept silent (in order to keep the "peace" between us). I attempted to explain to her our problems and what I truly feel. Naturally, she became extremely self-defensive and kept repeating that I was criticizing her. I understand how it may seem that way. But she exists on a completely different level of awareness and mentality than myself and so she cannot grasp the things I try to tell her, let alone my point of view. I won't get into details. But to make a long story short, that whole argument we had yesterday had a serious emotional impact on me and has changed my view on things. And yet, she continues to go on with her life as if nothing has happened while I am completely aware of the emotional turmoil she's experiencing. She is in an even darker and more negative space now. The bottom line is I wish she could just change. I know my words cannot change her - I only serve as a catalyst. How, how, how though, can I somehow raise her frequency enough so that there no longer needs to be this split between us, this increasing polarization that is occurring?? I love her very much and I feel it is crucial, especially now, that she embark on this awakening journey along with me. I know I cannot do it for her though. I am very confused. I ask for advice from anyone who is willing to share anything!
  24. Arguments in a relationship are not unhealthy. In fact they are a wonderful way to purify the relationship and develop greater levels of harmony. However, we’ve all been in that argument. The one that starts out with something small and ends up turning into a forest fire. In this episode, Teal Swan gives us advice about how to de-escalate an argument so your relationships will feel better and last longer. Teal Swan is an International Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality. Subscribe to Teal’s newsletters here: http://thespiritualcatalyst.us6.list-manage2.com/subscribe?u=a0c9fbd5534138eb374993029&id=bebf0eebc3 Teal's Web page: http://tealswan.com/ Teal's Meditations: http://www.jointeallive.com/meditations/ Teal's e-shop: https://gumroad.com/tealswan http://www.askteal.com Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video! http://amara.org/v/ZBh9/