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  1. CCL123

    Soul Merging?? I've had this feeling with two almost three people. The first one our (college) class was on a tour and he was standing behind me. I started feeling like I liked his energy and I guess I kinda slipped into it and it felt like I was one with him. All my anxiety went away, I felt completely safe, comfortable. For a while after whenever he would stand closeish the feeling would come back. The second was my boss, were just on break talking and I've gotten close to that feeling before with him. All the sudden it happened, same feeling, like we were on the same wavelength. Now it's almost happened with another guy and I still have no idea what this is but I love it. I've heard about soul merging with twin flames... The first one was completely suprising, we were just acquaintances. Has anyone else experienced this or something like it? I haven't found much online about it and I really want to know if anyone else is feeling this or has any idea what might be going on!
  2. toemilyjune

    365 Days to Self Love Day1 of 365 days of 'What Would Someone Who Loves Themselves Do?' I have Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Aiding in my tiredness is a viral load off the charts at 750 of the Epstein Barr Virus. I've watched Teal's videos and two times took notes on her very enlightening Chronic Fatigue video. My self-esteem seems to prevent me from making any lasting changes and often prevents me from even starting things. This trickles over into every aspect of my life including when I lay down for bed, when I leave my home, and when I answer the phone. I live in a perpetual state of fear. Even before this virus prevented me from working I lived in fear. I want a different life for myself than sitting on the couch being brainwashed by the media. I want to feel amazing with my toes in Grecian sand, and I want that flight to be a breeze instead of something that petrifies me to think of. Maybe I'll be lucky enough to have a partner. I want to make jewelry and have filthy hands from playing in potters clay. I want to help people in a way that doesn't leave me resentful and scraping by financially. Here's my starting point. I lay on the couch all day watching Netflix and switching to my phone eyeballing Facebook and Instagram. When it's time to sleep I brush my teeth, floss and oil pull (new habit), then turn off the tv and remain on the couch to sleep. My Adrenal fatigue is very severe. I can be on my feet for a couple hours during the day without exhaustion, but I will feel uneasy and fearful of my blood sugar dropping. I have hypoglycemia and my blood sugar drops every two hours, three if I'm lucky. I live alone in my apartment. I have one casual married male friend I see once a month at a vegan potluck and another I talk to occasionally via the Marco Polo application. She lives in Seattle. I leave the house to go to Costco and the grocery store. I'm doing this here in Teal's space because I feel safe here. I feel other people will accept what I'm doing. I want to hold myself accountable and follow through with a whole year documenting my journey. Finding self love and reclaiming my life is my top priority and I feel it's time to do something drastic. I'd like to look back on this and rejoice this time in my life as a valuable painful learning experience that is in the past. If one person reads my trials and begins their own journey to self love, thats an immeasurable bonus! Day 2 of 365 days of 'What Would Someone Who Loves Themselves Do?' I felt pressure yesterday following this new way of thinking. I didn't turn on the tv until the evening, which was a huge detour from my normal life laying on the couch. I was however on my laptop a lot haha. I went to my family's house (200 foot walk) and talked with my mom and pet her many corgis for over an hour. She breeds them under strict standards and shows them professionally. What was notably different was I received a renewal application in the mail and instead of looking at it until the day it was due I filled it out and actually dropped it off. I was dizzy and foggy headed doing so and I was scared to go to the grocery store which I had planned after. I asked the sacred question wondering to press on or go home, and was surprised to get the answer of 'go to the store'. I did. I didn't feel great, but I got through it, and actually felt peace that I could trust this answer from my higher self because it was not my first inclination. I know, a boring read so far. Prepare for more boring. I asked randomly during the day and I was told 'eat', 'go to the bathroom' and even 'lay down', 'relax'! When I listened to my body sure enough these things were a priority and I guess I was just ignoring them until it became glaringly obvious. Day 3 of 365 days of 'What Would Someone Who Loves Themselves Do?' In the name of authenticity and shame. In asking the question 'WWSWLTD?', I was pulled to catch up on Teal's blogs. She discussed shame that she feels and it probed me to ask about my shame, so I thought jogged the following: Being seen as a slob, Being seen as lazy, Being seen as sexual specifically around family, Being seen as free spirited “wild” = without discipline, Being seen as WooWoo or spiritual, Being seen as inadequate, especially in artistic measures, Being seen as a victim, Having racist moments when I know better, Not finishing things, Not meeting financial goals, Not looking ideally thin and healthy (in control), Not being well liked by people, Not being really good at something for my age. Not being seen as a good example of how to live in society with success and discipline. So afraid of being disliked that you end up alone. (because you judge others as harshly as you do yourself and abandon them if they do things you don’t agree with, or see as spiritually devolved.) Shortly after creating my list, my friend is Seattle rang on Marco Polo and we had a rare authentic conversation about projecting an accurate image of yourself into the digital dating world. She told me stories of vast misrepresentations and I admitted I rarely take pictures of myself and the only full body one that was not a 'shameful selfie' was when I was 10-15lbs lighter (just after a breakup no less). People online would want to meet me and I would never meet them in person because I knew I was false advertising and could not handle the rejection of reading the disappointment on their face and the utter awkward moments to follow. I just wanted someone to talk to and mask my loneliness and pain. The point this made me realize is this. Up until two years ago I have been in a relationship since I was 13 years old. I was a master at finding a guy I could land and accommodating myself to reflect his interests. Since I was ashamed of being spiritual, energy sensitive, or the barefoot bohemian type, I led with other aspects. I like long haired musicians, nice cars and fast bikes, have an innocent face, am desperate to go to Greece. What did I find? Long haired musicians I was petrified to sing around. Lots of handsome intelligent foreign men who were great with numbers and facts, attracted to my wholesome look, and loved my need for speed. Never mind I was used and using them for non intimate sex because that was the only way I knew how to get connection. Finally, A couple years ago this blew up in my face. Out of lust of Damon Salvator the bad boy in Vampire Diaries I manifested an American who looked strikingly similar to him and had similar non acting interests. On a beautiful night in Santa Cruz, CA my friend decided to have a beach party. 7 or 8 attended and I was on a rare moment happily myself since there were only two guys and both were in relationships, and what I considered too young. I told embarrassing shit stories of when I was in the Army and we all drank and bonded. What I didn't know was this boy 7 years younger had fallen for me, went home broke up with his girlfriend of three years and started pursuing me three days later. Naturally I was completely off guard and scrambled to put on my protective swave game face. Bam spiritual barefoot Emily vanished and out came wholesome, catering, attentive, adventurous Emily. We fell in love hard and fast. He worked in the forrest and loved to fish, which fit right in line with my family's way of living. Everyone was shocked I was dating an American with a red Jeep and a yellow dog. We moved in together two blocks from the beach and everything was going great, until I started getting sick with my Chronic Fatigue symptoms. He started to realize I was depressed with suppressed anger, which only magnified how uncomfortable he was with his suppressed feelings. As I got sicker I became more spiritual and obsessive with Feng Shui hoping to fix my life. He was alien to the idea of energy and even what healthy food was, and I was all about that when I got sick because I had saved my own life with diet before. A great love, or ideal of love, turned into two near strangers living together trapped after a year and a half. One day laying on the couch I put his arm around me for one too many times. I told him that it felt forced for him to be close to me and I absolutely don't want to be around someone who doesn't want me. In that moment I l probed him hard learning of his flailing feelings and immediately, what felt out of the blue, we broke up. I was already too sick to work and lonely from his rejection of my natural treatment methods. This made me feel so awful, but so so much worse when I learned he had been sleeping around. By now I was unable to hold down even my own massage practice so I flew home to Alaska to be with family and recuperate. During the month home, he began a new relationship, and there was no mending it. When I returned I found myself with a fast timeline to move out and another girl was to move in immediately after. Thus began a heartbreak so painful my health hit the floor. I moved to Alaska where I now reside and have worked hard to forgive him, which I feel I have genuinely done. It took a heartbreak so painful, a true rejection from someone I loved, and two years for me to sit here and say this. Not representing myself authentically is a form of self rejection and shame that can be so terribly painful and devastating I wondered how it has not killed me. The moral is to accept myself, and courageously be myself, thus attracting people who feel the same about themselves, and have the capacity to give to me in a way that is less likely to be detrimental. So how do I do that when I have so much shame and have never been authentically myself around any man or immediate family member for fear of rejection? That is exactly why I am asking the question throughout the day 'What would someone who loves themselves do?' because, I don't know yet. I'm at what feels like ground zero of unconditional self love. I do know that self rejection is a futile leaned behavior to seek acceptance and now a state too painful to live with.
  3. Schooling Vs education We all know that the purpose of formal schooling today is accreditation but I always hated schools and college because I love freedom and I love learning on my own I hate being ordered what to learn and how I hate examinations I hate having to assist to classes or doing homework I love curiosity I love acting upon curiosity and follow what my intuition guide me to learn about and I love helping others I don't know what's my problem and where to fit in society with this character I would like to open a conversation about how and why schooling sucks today ? especially for someone on a spiritual quest to find out the truth of who she is and what a real education should looks like ?
  4. MusicSpirit20

    Twin Flame Diagram Hello there! 🙂 This isn't really a question, per se; I just wanted to share a spiritual concept/diagram I drawn up which pertains to the concept of Twin Flames. I guess I'm just hoping to find some people out there who resonate with it? Anyway, the diagram I'm about to show you comes from Pkinism (pi-kin-i-ZUHM), which is a self-directed spiritual practice I started that is based around personal growth, self-awareness and integration, through the use of: *personality/relationship diagrams and concepts, based on twelve different archetypes created and developed in the mind of the practitioner (which may or may not be represented by physical objects, to be used as mediums) *self-written parables about said archetypes, derived from the individual practitioner’s own life and psyche Below is the explanation I wrote yesterday of what the diagram represents and means to me, as well as a link to a photo of it. Feel free to leave your thoughts on it in the replies! 🙂 Hopefully, that wasn't too confusing for you 🙂 If you have any questions, let me know! *The period of time in a Pkinist's life (12-23 years old) where they receive each of their archetypes in physical form and/or go through the process of becoming more aware of and integrating these different parts of their soul. The reception - or Reevcie, as it's called - of the physical objects that represent these archetypes happens once a year, on the practitioner's birthday. **A very strategic anagramming system I made up when I was thirteen, in order to name my teddy bear archetypes; for more information on Pkin Nomenclature, check out this page here ***After this, the letter-set switching and letter-scrambling techniques (in that order) are used in succession with each other until it produces twelve names (right before it loops back to Birval's)
  5. sparklinghueman

    Why am I so mean? You know usually it’s easy for me to figure my emotional stuff out but lately it’s not that way. I was so happy and ever since I got into this relationship it’s like so complicated. It’s not necessarily that it’s a bad relationship for me. I think it’s just shadows and stuff popping up for me that he reflects. Anyways question. Why am I always so mean? I hate that I’m mean. I don’t understand why I am mean to my partner or to anyone really. Every time he walks into the room when he gets home from work I’m immediately filled with defense and like I’m ready to yell. I feel like this every time he gets home. When he tries to show me love or compliments me I get angry and sometimes feel rage bubbling up inside me. When he wants to talk I get angry. Sometimes everything he does or says gets me in defense and yelling mode. It got to the point that I didn’t want to be touched and would feel rage from being touched. That has gotten somewhat better though. But sometimes I feel I can’t trust the person touching me and I’m scared of being taken advantage of sexually. Sometimes when he touches me in certain places I feel like my skin is burning and I have these visuals of hitting him. I try to hide it from him because I want this to go away and it doesn’t. I just want to put him down for everything he does that’s remotely positive. And I hate this yet can’t stop! I used to LOVE being shown love. Now it seems it makes me uncomfortable. This kind of seems like it happens in every relationship of mine. I don’t like hugs at all and I judge everyone constantly. It’s just so strange because I used to be like the total opposite of all of this and now it’s like everything I am is the exact opposite of what I want in my life. I feel so stiff, angry, judgemental, and distant from everyone. I wish I could go back to how things were. Why can’t I seem to make that happen? Why am I stuck in this nightmare? I miss how I used to feel about myself(self love) and about him. And others.
  6. Am I responsible for how other people feel? There are a couple answers to this question and many of them relate to our choice in our relationships. Some people take too much responsibility for how others feel, others take no responsibility at all. Teal explains that our responsibility is a choice and that we need to learn how to choose want we want rather than be led by what we think is right or wrong. Video References And Consciousness: 15:08 Incompatibility: 16:20 Attunement, The Key to a Good Relationship: 17:24 What kind of supportive are you? :19:35 Meet Your Needs: 27:52 Dependence Vs. Independence: 27:54 Responsibility (Why, When and How to Take It): 29:23 Subscribe to Receive a New Video Every Saturday: ❤ Free Gift: By pre-ordering Teal’s new book The Anatomy of Loneliness you receive the Connection Process audio book for free. Just email your proof of purchase to [Limited time offer]. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Teal Swan is a revolutionary for personal transformation and is one of the Most Spiritually Influential Living People in the world today. As a renowned author, speaker and social media star, she travels the world teaching self-development and teaching people how to transform their emotional, mental, physical and spiritual pain. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Daily Updates, Monthly Online Synchronization Workshops & More: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: Meditations, Books, Merchandise & Frequency Paintings: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video!
  7. How does daydreaming about a crush affect the energy? Does daydreaming about a crush/potential partner repel or attract the other person? I realise it's in innocent thing to do, but recently I've been trying to avoid thinking about the other person as much as possible. Is too much detrimental? Does it repel the other person? Do we need to let go of resistance, and let our feelings express themselves? How does this correspond with the law of attraction?
  8. Why do women give mixed messages? Many women have a split within themselves. The part that wants the traditional female role in society and the part that doesn’t. They struggle with today's society and the pressure to be both feminine and masculine. Teal shows how we can integrate the too opposing perspectives and find a place of peace in such a dichotomy. Giving mixed messages and women in the work place is a great video with Teal Swan showing her raw vulnerability. Subscribe to Receive a New Video Every Saturday: ❤ Free Gift: By pre-ordering Teal’s new book The Anatomy of Loneliness you receive the Connection Process audio book for free. Just email your proof of purchase to [Limited time offer]. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Teal Swan is a revolutionary for personal transformation. As a renowned author, speaker and social media star, she travels the world teaching self-development and teaching people how to transform their emotional, mental, physical and spiritual pain. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Daily Updates, Monthly Online Synchronization Workshops & More: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: Meditations, Books, Merchandise & Frequency Paintings: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video!
  9. Healthy Sexuality is all too often some ideal place that we hold over our own heads to shame and punish ourselves into getting there. The idea of healing sexuality is that while exploring our own sexuality we are on a journey rather than punishing ourselves into alignment. Teal Swan explains more deeply how we can be easier with ourselves and the idea that healing sexuality can be the road to healthy sexuality. Subscribe to Receive a New Video Every Saturday: ❤ Free Gift: By pre-ordering Teal’s new book The Anatomy of Loneliness you receive the Connection Process audio book for free. Just email your proof of purchase to [Limited time offer]. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Teal Swan is a revolutionary for personal transformation and is ranked 27th on The Watkins Most Spiritually Influential Living People in 2018. As a renowned author, speaker and social media star, she travels the world teaching self-development and teaching people how to transform their emotional, mental, physical and spiritual pain. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Daily Updates, Monthly Online Synchronization Workshops & More: Website: Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: Meditations, Books, Merchandise & Frequency Paintings: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video!
  10. Receiving Support and Being Supportive in a relationship are very different things. We intrinsically give certain levels of support and if we are looking for our partner to support us in a way that is not natural to them, we may be missing out on our own needs being met. This Ask Teal video about ‘What kind of supportive are you’ by Teal Swan helps shed some light on this issue. Teal Swan is an International Contemporary Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, authenticity, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: Completion Process Book: Teal's Meditations: Teal's e-shop: Beginning Song: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video!
  11. Grab your FREE 38-page guide on how to embody fierce feminine leadership, activate your magic, and manifest like a badass! Be sure to LIKE this video and SUBSCRIBE to this channel for more inspirational content! Join me and Teal Swan, The Spiritual Catalyst, for an interview about integrating your shadow to awaken, overcome addictions, and heal the loneliness wound on the planet. Here’s what were diving deep into: -Teal’s break-down of what the shadow is and how to shed light on what yours is -Her approach on addiction that you’ve never heard before, WHY it is prominent in the human species, how conventional treatment is BARELY skimming the surface of the issue and Teal’s method for getting to the ROOT of the wound --Why shadow work is the only way to get off the personal development/healing hamster wheel -How to actually discover your purpose in a way society never talks about -Why your perception of intimacy is actually perpetuating your isolation and how to shift out of it -Why loneliness is one of the largest epidemics that is creating SUFFERING on the planet and how we can take steps towards resolution This episode will give you a deep dive into Teal’s work and beliefs around healing and shine light on the wounds you’ve been running away from so you can step fully into your purpose. Head over to TEALSWAN.COM to learn more about Teal’s events and pre-order your copy of The Anatomy of Loneliness. If you’d like to join Teal’s Premium Content Membership, go to and enter “sexysoul” for 50% off your first month (valid until September 12th)
  12. In our hundredth celebration podcast we have Teal Swan back on the show. She was our first guest and now she is back for our hundredth! Teal has her new book coming out in October 2018 about Loneliness - you can pre-order the book here We speak about the waking up process, admitting me are lonely, why we shouldn't reject our loneliness, as well as shame and many other things. This is a great podcast - please share it!
  13. Intentional Communities I live in Toledo, Ohio its supposed to be a stressful place to live but isn't everywhere right now? I am interested in starting intentional community where i live but im having trouble finding people of like mind near me so while i am seeking people near me i am open to new ideas and new surroundings being that i cant hold myself back much longer i really want to help the world and i want to find groups of people that also see how things could be improved not to focus on the problems but to actually work on solutions im not opposed to shadow work dont take that the wrong way its often the case that we see the solutions to our problems through our shadow work and other self reflection practices i just want to create a space where our healers can heal where our empaths dont have to hide away where our children don't have to grow up by giving up their dreams because we have no reason not to let them invent the new world around us we have a physical version of telepathy now and its called the internet the thing that we havent used it for yet though is building the world that we deserve we can comunicate near instantly to anywhere in the world now we can much better here everyones voice if we give them the tools to speak i think the world is definitely on the precipice of greatness and i want to know who wants to help me make it happen faster feel free to respond regardless of the area you live
  14. Support

    Teal's web page: Teal's Meditations: Teal's e shop: Subscribe to Weekly Podcast of Tea Time With Teal here: You hear it all the time… The popular catch phrase, love is enough. Basically what it means is love is enough to make a relationship work. But is love really enough? The answer is no. Because when we are asking that question, we don’t actually love someone, instead we are in love with them. In this episode, Teal explains the difference between loving someone and being in love. She goes on to explain that getting into a relationship based on intense attraction is not wrong because it gives rise to the greatest expansion but that if one wants a feel good relationship, love is not enough. We also need conscious compatibility and conscious commitment. Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel - used by permission Help us caption & translate this video!
  15. GabijaCij

    Please support me so I can upload more: Instagram: Most of the beautiful shots of teal you saw in this video are from Paola Marino's documentary "Open Shadow: the Story of Teal Swan". Courtesy of Acquamarina Productions. To watch "Open Shadow" visit Other videos/audio I used in order of appearance AAE tv | The Power of Desire | Teal Swan | 9.24.16 The Mirror - NYC 2018 Teal Swan Answers To The Allegations Made Against Her Amazing Interview With Teal Swan Film - The Matrix Film - Wanted How to Talk to Your Pain My equipment : My Camera: Dji Osmo X5 2nd Camera: Black Magic Pocket Cinema Camera Lenses Slr Magic Lens Panasonic 42.5 (Amazing for B-Roll) Dji 1.7 15mm
  16. How can you fully love if you are not fully sure? Any thoughts on this? Do fears keep you from fully loving? And since nothing is for sure, how can you fully love?
  17. No Sexual desires Hey guys, idk where to start but for the past two years I have experienced what many people call low testosterone which causes many health issues such as: Sexual: reduced sex drive, sexual dysfunction, or erectile dysfunction Whole body: fatigue or hot flashes Muscular: muscle weakness or loss of muscle Also common: absence of menstruation, delayed puberty, depression, infertility, irritability, mood swings, pot belly, or weight gain Im experiencing all this symptoms and I really don't know what is causing it, I really want to solve this problem in a natural way not with viagra or hormone replacement therapy. maybe this was caused by past trauma? maybe denying parts of myself ? maybe my abandonment issues ? maybe I'm not connected to my divine masculine ? maybe of my insecurity?? I really don't know, I don't care about anything and if I do it quickly goes away, even when I get intimate with a girl I just have problems and then this one girl acted very distant after we had sex, maybe because i wast good enough ? I need help I want to expense the excitement of being with someone (which I do feel but very very little ). Is there anyone that can help me or point me in the right direction ? Thanks P.s. I just turned 22 years old its not like I'm in my late 30s. in addition, I eat pretty healthy most of the time.
  18. Choosing your partner I'm not really sure what my question is and I'm not really sure what I hope someone could say to make me feel better. About one year ago I posted on this same topic, I have progressed maybe a little. However, I have my regrets that I am trying to move past. The scenario is, I had two loves that I had to choose between (long story). I had the romantic option and the deep serious option. In the end, I said goodbye to the romantic option. There are many many days that I have regrets about it, and I ask myself "why couldn't I have enjoyed myself, let go, enjoy a romance" that would have lasted perhaps a decade or maybe two. I never saw myself growing old with him and so I tried to make the "responsible" decision to leave him. I am mad at myself for not allowing myself to enjoy him. Now I am with the serious one, the deep one. I care for him and he tries to be good to me. But sometimes I wonder if we are truly as compatible as I thought. We don't live together but have in the past and his messiness annoyed me and to be honest I think he is lazy, this annoys me too. We do have a special connection. I'm just not sure we will work out, yet strangely I always saw myself growing old with him. It is a conflict of living in the now. Ironically, I chose the person I envisioned in my future, and now here I am trying to live in the now...and questioning my choices. I just don't know. And I am exhausted form it all. Just looking for your observations on this, no specific question.
  19. amandapanda

    i did it again I have a long back story to this but, I will not bore anyone with it. long story short. I have manifested (yet again) a very painful situation where I have strong feelings of a romantic nature for someone who does not either A. See/feel/ sense the chemistry or connection B. chooses to ignore it or suppress it and gets into a relationship with someone else. I am left feeling like I imagined the whole thing and rejected - not good enough and silly for having feelings for someone who did not reciprocate them. Any of you who have had this happen will know the exquisite pain of unrequited feelings. But the question is WHY - why do I keep manifesting this situation!? (and I am aware of the positive in this - I'm not ready for a relationship - Health problems probably would have gotten in the way anyway... but still, it hurts so bad to not be loved by someone you admire.)
  20. Questions about self love So I just watched Teal's video on loving yourself for a year. Asking the question: What would someone who loves themselves do? I have a family gathering coming up, I don't want to go. There's no bad blood between us, but I don't want to deal with the awkwardness of it all. In fact, I wouldn't mind if my family forgot I existed. Can this be an act of self love? Deciding to not engage with situations that make me uncomfortable? I know most people would call this running away. But if I'm just going to make myself miserable then wouldn't avoiding that be a real act of self love? Another example would be me being totally fine with my life and not wanting to improve it. I don't feel the need to learn anything new, to keep my apartment clean, or to excel at my job. All I want to do is get by and do whatever the hell I want in my free time, and that's mostly just sleeping, watching movies, reading, eating. I'm currently saving money like crazy so that I can invest, retire early, and just be a well-off bum. Yes, I know that even asking these questions seem irrelevant to me. Because I'll probably just do what I want anyway. But I guess there is a part of me that wants to do "the right thing", whatever my higher self wants. But I can't discern that. Or maybe I can and it's what I've just said, and even though I LOVE both ideas, I'm still fighting it for some reason. ? I would pay Teal Swan $200 to just ask her some dumb questions on self love...I can't find any type of coaching services though...
  21. Teal speaks about Christ Consciousness, difference between fear and love and the role of choice in Christ Consciousness. Another major factor in this difference is the context of culture and time period in which the bible was written. How much culture was woven into Christ's teachings in order to have them be widely accepted amongst the people of that time period. Help us caption & translate this video!
  22. Douglas Power

    When Is Suicide Okay? Hi all. When do you think suicide is permissable? Is it ever? Yes, it can leave loved ones grieving, but what if a soul was truly up against a no win situation, such as an accident or coma or jail/prison or horrific violence or suffering? If the point of life is to love, and learn, and find happiness, there are truly many instances where it is just not possible within given circumstances for any kind of evolution to happen for that particular soul. Do we agree? I feel like some souls, to save themselves and potentially others from harm or even more sadness and chaos, have a right to set themselves free. Wipe the plate clean. Start again, but take those lessons learned into the new dimension and experience awaiting them. If we are truly immortal spirits, we all deserve a chance at happiness and redemption. Food for thought.......
  23. Viktor Jansson

    Disorganized Attachment style Yes, we're Earth Angels and spiritual beings having a human experience, and we don't choose our parents. But I, among so many, can't find resolution with the greatest internal conflict above all: The Disorganized Attachment pattern. I've lived with this acute pain for two decades and need your help and perspectives. I'm overwhelmed and I don't know how to love the pain that's so painful that my body doesn't feel the pain. Please help me see.
  24. In this episode, Teal Swan reveals the real reason why relationships fail. Teal Swan explains that you could be living in a completely different reality from your spouse, partner or relationship. Our perceptions of reality are set up during childhood but we can fix this once we are aware that it is happening. Video References The Most Dangerous Parallel Reality: 5:05 Get on The Same Page (Relationship Advice) : 7:00 Attunement - The Key to a Good Relationship: 12:38 The Emotional Wakeup Call : 12:52 Teal Swan is an International Spiritual Leader. She offers perspective on a wide range of topics including relationships, anxiety, meditation, shadow work, the law of attraction, The Completion Process, healing, PTSD, emotions and spirituality Website: For daily updates, monthly online Synchronization Workshops join Facebook: Instagram: Twitter: TEALCATALYST Newsletter: Completion Process Book: Teal's Meditations: Teal's e-shop: Endsong: Kuan Yin's Mantra (c) 2002 Lisa Thiel Help us caption & translate this video!
  25. Valeria333

    Home Hey guys, so right now I’m living at home. Until next year when I can move. But right now I’m living at home and it’s painful and isolating. I grew up with a mother who couldn’t own her shame or take responsibility for her impact on other people. I felt like an object to her- a scapegoat to blame things on. If you’ve watched teal’s victim control drama, the you’ll know what I’m talking about when I say that she makes it so the only way I can be around her is if I agree to her estimation of me as this as person responsible for her pain, etc. she lives in denial that she’s done any of this manipulation and instead asserts that she “really cares for me”. My only option in this—since if I try to make her aware of this she denies it— is to just focus on leaving home and the kinds of people and things that I do want instead of this. The other day she starting talking about how she is worried about how I don’t want to spend any time with her and how she’s worried about me. The tone of her “concern” was that there was something wrong with me for not wanting to be with her/at home. I’ve given up on trying to get her to see that she doesn’t accept me at all or truly care about me. She just wants to seem like it because she wants think of herself as a good person. She always manages to insult me when she’s expressing how she’s concerned about me. Saying I need to get help because otherwise I’ll turn into an “antisocial hermit” who is depressed. In the beginnings of these conversations I start to think that maybe she doesn’t Iove but then she insults me or avoids talking about own responsibility for this. I just wanted to express all of this because it’s making me feel really isolated and a little abused to be honest. When I leave, I will be made the bad person. She will never see that me not wanting to be connected to her is because I have no other option. It’s an act of self preservation. I feel so alone. I feel hopeless. It’s hard for me to accept that someone could not love me and it really not be my fault. That I could have truly just been powerless to my mother growing up. It makes me feel cheated of having a loving home. And it makes me feel abused that the blame is put on me, as if this is something I wanted or had a hand in creating. I didn’t consciously choose to be born into an unloving home. I hate being guilted and shamed for wanting to leave it. Thanks for listening.