Many of the experiences that you have attracted into your life, you have not attracted into your life on purpose. As people, a lot of our attraction is not done by deliberate intent, but rather it is done by default. No one likes a reality that is created by default. Because of this, it is important to understand that you get what you think about, whether you want it or not. Chronic thoughts, about things that you DO NOT want, attract those experiences. Conversely, thoughts about things that you DO want, attract those experiences. If your goal is to deliberately create a life that you feel good about living, you can not afford the luxury of a negative thought. This is the real reason to make the best out of any situation that you may find yourself in.