Some people spend their entire lives dedicated to the past. They do this by trying to change the past or harboring thoughts that the past should have been different. When you compare WHAT HAPPENED with WHAT YOU THINK SHOULD HAVE HAPPENED in the past, you are declaring war with source itself. It is a recipe for misery. It is masochism. No argument no matter how good it is, will ever make the slightest shift occur in something that has already happened. The past is past. It already happened, you can't do anything about it. But what you can do is ask yourself: "Where do I want to go from here and what can I do with what I have from where I am right now?"