If you are in a situation where someone is being less than kind to you, that situation is the indication that in some way, you are being less than kind to yourself. You can only be a match to meeting and surrounding yourself with people who treat you poorly, if you treat yourself poorly. The world is reflecting how you treat yourself! So what does the doctor order? Self love! If you find yourself in a situation where someone is being less than kind to you, ask yourself "What way can I show myself care and love right here and now?" And ACT on the answer you receive.