You're not ever going to teach people how they should be, nor do you really want to change other people to be just like you. Your job isn't to fix others; the truth is that they are not broken. Your job is to decide what feels good to you and you alone. Your job is to pay attention to what feels good to look at, and then to fixate upon those things as long as they give you pleasure and joy. Do not imprison yourself by making your joy depend upon what anybody else is wanting or doing or living. Live a free life by making your joy depend upon your focus towards what YOU are wanting and doing and living.