It is time to talk of detachment. Detachment does not mean to remove oneself from the experience and not let it impact you. Quite the opposite, it means to let the experience penetrate you completely. If you try to avoid going all the way through the emotions of experience, you will never be detached. To become detached means to dive into the experience and the depths of the emotions so far that you drop out the other side. With full understanding. It is that very understanding you come out with that enables you to say "Now that I fully know, I can let go". THAT is detachment.