There is no "glass ceiling" when it comes to happiness; no limit whatsoever. No matter how happy you are, you can always add to your happiness. So ask yourself right here and now: What would make me even happier right now? What would make this moment even better? And do that! This also applies to relationships. Many of us (rescuer types) believe that our only value in relationships is to make an unhappy person...happy. We fear that we will have no role in other people's lives once they are actually happy. But this is because we forget that there is no limit to happiness. We forget that we can always add to other people's happiness. All we need to ask ourselves is: What would make them even happier right now? And do that for them.