Every change for the better will feel like both a blessing and a curse. The reason for this is that change means you will hold a new perspective. And every new perspective contains both aspects that are wanted as well as aspects that are unwanted. The unwanted aspects are meant to inspire you to an even greater change... an even greater perspective. It is the platform for expansion. Fix your attention upon what is wanted relative to your current situation as well as what the unwanted relative to your current situation has caused you to desire, and you will move from perspective to greater perspective again and again with joy and ease. And even the 'curses' will be seen as blessings in disguise.