If you want to succeed, the answer is not to figure out how to overpower the you that is pulling in the opposite direction. In fact, this does a lot of harm. It creates a greater split within you. You also do not need to figure out how to become more successful. You do not need to hire a better coach or try to lean better skills. All you need to do is to figure out what that resistance actually is and start dealing with that resistance directly in an integrative way.