When we find ourself in unwanted repeat situations, we immediately think “this shouldn’t be happening’. And why wouldn’t we think that? It isn’t what we want. It’s the opposite of what we want. But from a more objective perspective, we haven’t gone backwards. And it is what should be happening. We have re-manifested/ been put in a healing experience where the healing thing (whether we recognize it or not) is to use our free will to change the thoughts, behaviours, habits and actions that are lending to the creation of that unwanted thing.