Based on the fact that many spiritual teachers say, “just let go” as if it is possible and should be easy to do, most people feel ashamed that they can’t. So instead, they start to pretend to be able to. They develop a thick spiritual façade and walk around saying “Namaste” and preaching forgiveness, when the aspect of them that has not forgiven and does not unconditionally love and cannot let go is stuffed deep down in the subconscious mind and acts out in all kinds of ways that they, themselves are oblivious to.