Examine your resistance relative to being female on the spiritual, mental, physical and societal level.  Resistance is a word we use to describe the energy behind negative emotion.  Do you have resistance (therefore negative emotion) relative to your periods?  Do you have resistance relative to being a wife?  Do you have resistance relative to your breasts?  Do you have resistance to wearing or not wearing makeup?  Do you have resistance towards being open with others?  Do you have resistance to natural birth?  If you feel resistance relative to any aspect of life that you identify as “female”, you have something in the way of the divine feminine within you.  For example, you do not need to wear dresses to embrace the divine feminine, but you are suppressing the divine feminine as long as you associate dresses with being female and continue to harbor resistance to dresses.