The fear of being alone often has nothing to do with other people. Most of the time it is about a lack of integration with yourself. Most of the time it is about the deep, unresolved pain that you carry within you that you don’t want to be with. Most of the time it is about a poor self-concept, a poor relationship to your own capabilities and confidence. Most of the time it is about a lack of self-love. And therefore, a fear of aloneness is often really just a fear of being with yourself.