So Teal, when we look outside of ourselves and see the Wayne Dyer's, The Tony Robbins, The Mike Dooley's, The Esther Hicks, any and all those that even though they may have bad days, have excelled at making themselves financially rich or famous. How long can those of us who suffer in pain, depression, and sadness and keep telling ourselves this is the way we are suppose to feel while those I have mentioned have found a way to become successful and rich? When does our pain turn to self pity and we use what you teach as an excuse to remain in pain and misery, which is exactly what I do on a dail