Here’s the rest, in case someone is interested:
About not having a career ( as I left mine to be with my kids and so to find my true passion and do what I love) once I dropped my resistance to not having a career what came up was pain form really needing to feel valuable and capable in doing great work combined with a proper environment where we are a team and connected so work and productivity flow. That’s what I’m really missing in my life, and so it is painful when people label me as not having a career.
In conclusion: When I let go of my resistance to the fact that I don’t have a great job yet, including a nice environment where we are connected so work flows, and focus on how I can get there and what exactly would I like, the career comment won’t do anything to me, and/ or will disappear
Ok, now for being beautiful. There’s my resistance to that and after I dropped it, I could feel my pain from only being liked and having value due to my physical appearance ( now only my face due to the overweight part). So, I’ve made that mean that i have no other qualities, and if someone doesn’t find me beautiful, then I have no value at all. So consequently, I’m in resistance to the fact that there’s so much more to me than physical beauty and in conclusion when I manage to gather proof and see all that I’m valuable for, then my reaction to being told I’m pretty will shift, or maybe even I’ll be told things like you are witty, kind, compassionate, thorough, smart, attractive and so on ( yes, i need to work on that ).
Lastly, for my PhD. This one is a bit different as it was coming mostly from my family members. They were very proudly announcing I’m a PhD when meeting other people. I’m in resistance to that because it implies that I’m only worthy and a reason to be proud of, just because I stayed long enough at the university, and not because of the person I’m with everything that’s me. So, I guess, I’m myself in resistance to the fact that I’m good enough and worthy with all that I’m, and this wouldn’t change even if I had no PhD. This one will be hard work to master, especially now that I live in Austria. Here, people get called with all the titles they have in from of their names like Mag, PhD, etc I’ve never experienced that before ...
Does anyone relate?
Thanks again Teal and team