Thank you soooo much Teal. I have severe Borderline, and everything you said is sooooo f*cking on point... I have gone from therapist to therapist, and healer to healer, a different spiritual teacher who was a friend and mentor too. I've been told countless times "I don't know how to help you", I've had people say "you're just not getting better", "what's wrong with you?", "you've got to grow up and join the adult world", "Your needs are too much for anyone" Which has had me immensely internalizing that I am defective and beyond help :'( But what you said about unconditional presence, is absol
