Hey Raederle, thank you very much!
That made much sense.
In fact, a few days ago I went to a CP "session" and I realized I had a kind of trauma with choices, but my adult self addressed my issue after the relief phase, very much like you did here in your post.
Now is clear to me that is completely possible to thrive in many areas of our lives which also completely related to our needs simultaneously.
I'm feeling much better now :)
Thank you again!