Actually I also still dont really get the parts work come out of that lady. I mean, the part actually said to her, "dont embarrass me by smiling until were on that Island" and she said yes to it. I mean, that would mean she is not allowed to smile until she reaches that island. It can't be true that she actually wants that? What if she never reaches it ? Why shouldn't she smile on the journey to the island? I think she was overwhelmed when she accepted that and made herself small compared to that part.
I mean it's great when you find alignment with your parts .. but if you'd ask her again :" do you really want yo stop smiling until you've reached that island? " guess the answer would be no.