I am 28 and just experienced my first orgasm with a partner, something I never thought would be able to happen due to the intense "numbness" I've felt during and about sex.
I watched how to heal the emotional body, and thought, maybe there's something going on around the idea of "sex" that needs to be experienced and healed.
So, in the act with my partner, instead of detaching from pleasure, I leaned into it and said to it "I am here with you now". I felt shame going back to childhood. I imagined a pure being of energy there in the dream saying "It's ok. Be free. Let go o