When people are resistant to my truth I don't want them to drop it as there is a part of them (for valid reason) that needs to be recognised rather than pressured to change. We can't integrate opposing aspects without reconciling them and we can only reconcile them through revelating a currently hidden truth.
I try to seek expansion inward instead of forcing integration these days, by sinking beneath my emotions and claiming the I AM of the feeling until I reach the most inwardly expansive state...e.g. feeling insignifficant expands inward until you reach the void....feeling confused expands inward until to reach chaos/the primevil substance etc.
Here's an example of being resistant to other peoples resistance from my own experience: When another persons truth used to invalidate my own truth back when I had resistance to BEING invalid, I would often reject that truth which would manifest itself as irrational stubbornness. Ive since discovered that many people's resistance is experienced by them as invalidation of their truth. This experience of being invalidated is actually just an invitation to sink beneath it and allow the experience "I AM Invalid." Continued sinking beneath will eventually lead to I dont matter...I am of no matter...I am immaterial...I am no-thing...I am nothing...I am void...and that's the end of the line. Much easier than forcing integration in my opinion.