wrt the comment at the end of part 1 on the person having cerebral palsy:
yes ... he might get more love from the family that way ... and not have the struggle of living up to the demands to perform for them
but on the other hand he is now struggling with having cerebral palsy
so it's still a win-lose situation (the other way would have been not getting love but being able to live a less limited life)
the question is how can get to have it all ???
a healthy body and love ... and money and safety and belonging ... and the girlfriend that is both beautiful and interesting .. and an interesting life ... and ... and ...