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  1. Ugh I really want to go to one of those curveball retreats but I have quite a few reasons for not wanting to fly anywhere for the immediate future so all I can do is hope she comes to belgium sometime soon. Costa Rica sounds fun though. Maybe after I get my local shit dealt with I'll take my chance, even if she's come here before that.
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    Dinner By Teal

    Because I enjoy cooking? And marry? Like marriage? I don't wanna marry Teal. Weirdo.
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    Dinner By Teal

    I NEED your strawberry shortcake recipe. I'm also vegan and can't eat sugar so desserts are pretty much impossible to find recipes for and strawberry shortcake is definitely the one thing I wanna be able to make more than anything else. Please. I need the recipe.
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    Ask Teal

    "people who think they're being loving by reflecting your shadow when really there are unloving motivations behind it" I've definitely met people like that on this site... Can't wait to see what this big surprise is.
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    Past Life Trauma

    Interesting talk. I never understood why people did past life regression. Like, if you can connect to past lives, why visit trauma instead of learning how the pyramids were build? There's an ocean of things to learn and people just pick a trauma scapegoat instead. Baffling.
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    Picture Time

    So many hugs. Sounds like a good day.
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    Unspoken History

    "You comply, or you die." I can see how that sums up my life until now. This is the kind of topic I'd be interested in seeing more of. Especially in the public eye.
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    Sport Needs

    This is interesting. I never understood why people watch sports. Especially soccer, the whole country brings out their flags and it's everywhere and I hate it. But I've always seen this country more as where I currently live than where I'm from, even though I was born here. I guess it hurts to see other people flaunt that they find a sense of belonging or connection where they are, which I've never had.
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    False Humility

    My sister is currently studying psychology. We don't talk that much but just based on what she says I'm not too fond of the stuff she's being taught. She said she didn't see anything about Freud because it's outdated, and my mom went on to say he still needed to be credited because "he started it all" and it just pissed me off. Sure, maybe he was the first to be able to reach a wide enough audience to remain noticed (and the time he lived in probably helped with that). But I think it's completely ridiculous to sign the entirety of psychology on the creation of one person. Psychology has always expanded by new people coming in with new ideas, some that completely throw old ideas out the window. To rely upon some paper stating you learned the old ways for validity in opinion is to not understand the nature of discovery. Teal has helped me greatly, but I've also figured out a lot of stuff by myself. The fact that there are people who would completely throw what I've learned to the wind because I don't have a degree in psychology is so infuriating. One of my biggest issues with humans is that they tend to enter a conversation believing their opinion is right instead of entering it to understand one another. Also, fuck the mental health system.
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    Self Esteem Matrix

    "...feeling good in your own skin" does that mean it would help ease dysphoria? because that sure as hell would be great.
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    I'm slowly going towards veganism and eating sugar free too. I still like eggs but tbh I think that once I live on my own I just won't bother buying any, and in the beginning of this year I noticed I get sick when eating even relatively small amounts of sugar, so I'm trying to cut that out as far as possible. I so relate to "you can't call yourself an environmentalist and still eat meat" I shortly followed someone on insta who was all about suffering-free makeup, and then she said she wasn't vegan and I was so surprised. I already kinda felt she could fall in the group of people who try to act more woke than they are and after that I had enough. It pisses me off when people act anywhere near enlightened but the act is a lie. I just can't stand people like that.
  12. I definitely wanna make this someday. Never knew what tamales were but it looks delicious.
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    Narcissistic Service

    The only thing of doing a service that I can think of is that I give a lot of compliments. But that's something I've had to learn in the last few years because I never said a thing and it felt bad. idk if I have such a narcissistic service. I decided quite a while ago to only care for myself so I guess this is a sign I'm on the right path regarding this.
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    Why Do You Vacation?

    The only vacations I ever went on were the ones my parents forced me on. But I think that if I'm going to go on a vacation at some point, it'll be with people I love, not alone. Just picking places we'd like to see and experiences we'd like to have. I don't really see a vacation as a break from the "normal", I see it as traveling to a place too far for a day trip. Going to see a movie in your city or flying to the other side of the world are based on the same desire from my point of view. Doing something you want to do with someone you love. Besides, I've already decided I'm not doing the whole "this is stressful as fuck but I gotta do it" thing anymore. I learned the hard way that doing so will only make me want to put an end to life so if I'm gonna live I'm gonna do things that make me feel like life is, at the very least, not that bad.
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    Late Development Universe

    Where are the details? The juicy details? I hunger for knowledge. ...and food.
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