Yep, so it is not about keeping freedom in the box is about being aware in relationship. You see you, he gets to see him. The feeling that you find somebody like him... is the intuition that you will repeating a pattern that hurt you before (long ago). The invitation to stay in the relationship will work only if there will be awarnes so you get to transcend this pattern. And then you will be ready for different partner. And yeeea... i read the comments above, freedom is freedom, freedom is happy. Rebelion is angry. Dogs running free??? Wild... no boundaries... realy???????