This has been a thing my mind holds dear - if it's possible to go on living without having any kind of crisis ever again, I hold on to any kind of promise for that. But I have noticed that it does not make sense or feel right... It's nothing more than a coping mechanism. It has been easier for me to notice that from other people in spiritual forums, but it is my pet peeve as well. Hearing this does make me feel more at ease, since some of pain cannot be avoided, it means I don't have to (try to) control the world around me that desperately. Preach.