Hi Candie , I know how you feel. I can give some advice , only physical things have boundary. Love is not physical! So you given something not physical - physical definition . To make this work , you have to " separate " from your body and mind . Instead you are something , you become everything ! This is very fundamental , hope can help you to drop all conclusion. ..?
We are living in a new level of the human evolution . Is very critical moment in which direction we will go . I think is very important all positive people from all movements and groups around the world become united , so we can reach the critical mass and change the social system for the benefit of all people and the planet earth ...