Transforming Victimhood Into Victory - January 2022

Live interview with Andriani Marshanda.

  • 00:01:42 Teal said, "you shouldn't rush your healing process", but I go through things and learn fast. Am I using my habit of learning to suppress or run away from the healing process that's supposed to take place at its own pace?
  • 00:04:13 What can you say to people who feel the need to avoid the suffering that is everyone's lives? What is suffering? Why do we suffer?
  • 00:08:29 Why is pain so important to look at?
  • 00:08:29 What is resistance? Can resistance be healthy or good in any way?
  • 00:10:29 What is the downside of living a life only focusing on the positive, never looking within, and never knowing your pain?
  • 00:13:03 For people who aren't ready to share their pain with anyone else, how can they process it on their own?
  • 00:19:40 What do poor boundaries look like?
  • 00:27:05 Abuse. A lot of people aren't aware that they've experienced abuse, trauma. What are some examples of abuse?
  • 00:29:51 Sexual abuse. I've read that saying yes doesn't always equal consent. Is that true?
  • 00:34:14 Why does Teal say that healing isn't linear? Does healing ever end?
  • 00:37:36 Trauma bonding and Stockholm Syndrome. What does it mean and why does it happen?
  • 00:43:25 How to start to know what is healthier for us when we're stepping out of trauma and healthy ways don't feel familiar yet?
  • 00:47:10 Sometimes putting a teacher on a pedestal hurts us. How do we learn from someone without putting them on a pedestal in the wrong way?
  • 00:51:14 How to tell the difference between things coming from intuition VS from fear?