Online Workshop - Aug 12 2018 - Part 1/2

2:18 FREEDOM VS COMMITMENT. My current priority is the freedom of personal choice and it has caused immense distance between me and one of my very special loved ones. I HATE hurting her, but it feels like I need to have choice and be able to do what I want. Should I continue?

4:11 HOW DO I KNOW IF MY HEALING WORKS? When doing shadow and LoA work, I get confused about whether or not a certain remedy I think of will actually heal a pattern, I feel it might not work, be too vague or unrelated to resolving the issue, how do we know we've found a good way of healing something or resolving a split?

7:00 ANGER. A part of me gets angry when I do shadow work, why?

9:42 FEELING INVISIBLE. I was the invisible child in my family and I don't know how experience the opposite feeling to heal this trauma. How can I feel seen?

17:37 TOO MUCH SELF LOVE? I have been using the Completion Process and am learning to love myself and approve of myself. And I am so grateful for this because I feel so much better. But I am wondering if this can ever go too far? Can I love myself too much?

19:57 ADOPTION. I have heard adoptees mentioned: "They don't know who they are." The latest studies have concluded adoptees are doomed to neurosis for the rest of their lives. What would you say to adoptees in your Tribe? Are we able to become aligned?

27:47 HYPER SENSITIVITY. What is the reason behind choosing to be born highly sensitive? Are we supposed to teach people something and if so, what is it? Words of encouragement?

33:00 PLASTIC SURGERY. What is your opinion on plastic surgery? Can a woman/man be in alignment and at the same time get plastic surgery to look better? How does it affect us (our consciousness/body etc..)

35:28 NO SELF CONCEPT. My lifelong issue has been a complete lack of self concept. I get triggered even when I get remotely near this idea of me as a separate being. I badly latch onto people and only get satisfaction by others showing me importantce, I cannot enjoy/love anything outside of me. Can you help me with this?

39:00 POLARITIES. Can you talk about how to hold two opposing polarities at the same time. When I experience cognitive dissonance, I notice I tend to see someone as ALL good or ALL bad and struggle to hold the fact that both truths are valid. Any tips on how to hold both realities at the same time?

40:56 FEAR OF LOSS. Two weeks ago the person that I feel most (strangely) connected to in this life got the message that he has a life threatening illness. Since the doctor's "can't do anything" me and my alternative health friends are researching day and night to find cures. How do I handle the extreme fear and shock that is tearing me apart? I'm so afraid of loosing him. We have a very special story.

46:00 FORGIVENESS. How can I forgive my abusers for what they did? Is forgiveness a necessary part of healing? I feel so much resistance to forgive, but I feel like holding on to resentment is ruining my life.

49:38 I DON'T CARE ABOUT PEOPLE. I want others to care about me and be interested in me and have relationshipsbut it is impossible to have a good relationship, which I am starving for, if I dont geniuenly care about others so is it possible to start geniuenly caring about others and be interested in them?

52:18 SUPPRESSION. How do you express emotional energy that results from everyday triggers/circumstances if at the moment you do not feel it as intensely but see direct manifestation of its suppression later?

55:08 LACK OF MOTIVATION. What would you say to someone who cant get out of bed in the morning unless someone is holding them accountable. A person who watches motivational and self help videos a lot, who has many dreams. But has trouble taking action, and major resistance to getting a job.

57:10 BLADDER INFECTIONS. Why are sooo many women struggling with bladder infections etc.? Typical when having a new partner. It’s so hard to heal it completely. When I did bit of research I found the internet is FULL of desperate women suffering from chronic UTIs! Any tips/clues?


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Oh no dear Teal, how can you say that forgiveness is bad than that you never taught it? ? In tool 18 of Shadows before dawn (page 216) you say "the best way to cure yourself of victimhood is forgiveness", and later the the chapter Page 218) you describe a forgiveness technique that you say  yoh have had great succes with ? Now you are just confusing me...

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19 minutes ago, Casper F said:

Oh no dear Teal, how can you say that forgiveness is bad than that you never taught it? ? In tool 18 of Shadows before dawn (page 216) you say "the best way to cure yourself of victimhood is forgiveness", and later the the chapter Page 218) you describe a forgiveness technique that you say  yoh have had great succes with ? Now you are just confusing me...

In Shadows before Dawn, I think she recommended Affirmations too. However; in her recent work, she has been saying that affirmations are bad.  And that you shouldn't do affirmations.

Teal changes her mind because she is constantly evolving and expanding. 

It is a sign that she is not stuck in dogma.

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On 8/22/2018 at 10:24 PM, Casper F said:

Oh no dear Teal, how can you say that forgiveness is bad than that you never taught it? ? In tool 18 of Shadows before dawn (page 216) you say "the best way to cure yourself of victimhood is forgiveness", and later the the chapter Page 218) you describe a forgiveness technique that you say  yoh have had great succes with ? Now you are just confusing me...

It's not about forgiveness being bad in general. It's about forced forgiveness being bad

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17 hours ago, Elliemcel said:

Hello everyone. There is also an international Facebook group called "Teal Tribe Adoptees" :star-yahoo-emoticon:

link it here! :) 

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Hey, when will the next online Workshop take place?? I have a question that I am desperate to ask. Also, where am I supposed to type the question I have ? I don't see that option anywhere!!

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13 hours ago, Apurva Deshpande said:

Hey, when will the next online Workshop take place?? I have a question that I am desperate to ask. Also, where am I supposed to type the question I have ? I don't see that option anywhere!!

Most likely September

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11 hours ago, GabijaCij said:

Most likely September

Thank you for the answer. I am a bit of a technological dummy, so can you please tell me where I can type the question have? Where do I have to go to type the question ? Or will that option to ask your question appear on its own some days prior to the Online Workshop?

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On 8/24/2018 at 12:31 PM, GabijaCij said:

link it here! :) 

Thanks so much, forgot to do that!  

https://www.facebook.com/groups/693409767690210/?ref=br_rs

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can you please tell me where I can type the question have? Where do I have to go to type the question ? Or will that option to ask your question appear on its own some days prior to the Online Workshop?

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But what if you have frequent bladder infections, but were not (or dont remember being) the scapegoat in the childhood. How can it be healed?

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On 10/10/2018 at 9:20 AM, Jonah A said:

Shouldn't she than retract those books? She's actively spreading harmful information. That's not very nice of her.

She never said that affirmations are bad and one should completely stop doing them, she just no longer sees them as a relevant tool, it all depends on the issue, in certain situations they can still complement other ways of healing. She wasn't straight up recommending affirmations in her earlier book either. Her opinion might have changed on affirmations but it wasn't that drastic.

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