LittleCake

How to be normal when you emotionally closed up

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How to be normal when you emotionally closed up

Usually when I am emotionally vulnerable I close off emotionally because I really don't want to show negative emotions to strangers. But let's say when I dance with a girl I want to open up emotionally but that fear of judgment is too much for me. So I have 2 opposite forces in me. And to be emotionless robot(stuck in my head) is not the best decision. So in my experience when I ask a girl for a dance she said"Can you be normal? ". So basically I have this need for acceptance so whenever I express it - situation becomes ugly. 

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Emotions can have great affect on your body. Your thoughts play major part in how you feel.  When your head and body are not aligned with the decision you are trying to make, your chances to accomplish anything drastically drop and you may even behave inadequate. So perhaps this is why you are getting such feedback. 

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Hi LittleCake,

I don't understand you fully - are you saying that girls have actually said to you "Can you be normal?" and refused to dance with you for some reason?

What is it you're aiming for with them that you aren't getting?

What type of emotions would you like to be able to express with them?

L1on.

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