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Hearing my boyfriend rate women

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Hearing my boyfriend rate women

My boyfriend treats me very well and is very attentive to me. we've been together for three years and for some reason a lot of that time i have held anger and never fully knew why. 

I am a stripper and my boyfriend works in night life. So i just need to throw this out there when starting this topic

I really bothers me that my boyfriend likes really young girls and I also just heard him tell his friend "dont take home any 5,6, or 7's" 

I just cant stand it when men look at women like that.

part of me for forever has felt like theres something wrong with this relationship but then i also dont know why id leave someone that takes care of me so well. 

any insight? 

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"takes care of me so well"... if he was you wouldn't be stripping. Sorry if that sound judgmental but if I was dating someone and cared about them I would help them get out of a shit job like that. 

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On 3/15/2019 at 1:00 AM, MollyMadison16 said:

Hearing my boyfriend rate women

My boyfriend treats me very well and is very attentive to me. we've been together for three years and for some reason a lot of that time i have held anger and never fully knew why. 

I am a stripper and my boyfriend works in night life. So i just need to throw this out there when starting this topic

I really bothers me that my boyfriend likes really young girls and I also just heard him tell his friend "dont take home any 5,6, or 7's" 

I just cant stand it when men look at women like that.

part of me for forever has felt like theres something wrong with this relationship but then i also dont know why id leave someone that takes care of me so well. 

any insight? 

Walk away.. seriously, walk away.  

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Hi Molly Madison,

This is all about your self worth. Thumbs up for recognising this small way you feel de-valued.

A suggestion would be to bring this up with your boyfriend assertively. I.e. "When you speak about other women like that it makes me feel _______. Would you mind not doing it anymore when I'm around?".

If he cares about your feelings he'll listen and take your feelings seriously.

Good luck x

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