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Covert Tactics of Narcissistic Abuse

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Covert Tactics of Narcissistic Abuse

Over the period of the last five years I have noticed a disturbing trend and one of the most insidious ways for narcissists to covertly abuse others in order to garnish Narcissistic Supply. The tactic used to slowly breakdown the victim is a subtle form of mimicry/mockery. The mimicry is intended to be very subtle, almost too subtle for most people to pick up on. For the vast majority of people this type of covert abuse simply goes over their head or unnoticed. But for people who are hypersensitive to abuse or who have honed their built-in narco-detectors, this form of abuse is all too common. I have noticed this tactic used extensively in situations where the narcissist or narcissists are jealous. For many narcissists this seems to be their "go to" method of Narcissistic Supply. For whenever the narcissist is jealous they immediately begin mimicking or mirroring the person they are jealous of in order to admonish the person's Ego and gain a sense of superiority over the victim. Admonishing a person's Ego in this fashion is abusive. There is no other use for this type of behavior other than abuse. Individuation occurs from within the individual, themselves. In fact, it MUST originate from within the unconscious of the individual. The admonishment of a person's Ego in this fashion by others is none other than psychological abuse, or in extreme cases torture.

Tactics of mimicry and mockery are also used extensively in Christian Cults such as the JW (Jehovah's Witnesses) Cult. This religious organization, perhaps, more than others is responsible for indoctrinating its members and permeating subtle forms (and not so subtle forms) of abuse and brainwashing into society. Much like Scientology the JW's reduce religion to mere psychology, but their "psychology" is a pseudo-science. Just like the recently discovered brainwashing manual of cult leader L. Ron Hubbard, I can only venture to guess the Watchtower Society trains its "Elders" using a similar playbook. Cult members are often under the mistaken notion that they are simply "helping" the people they love overcome their own psychological neuroses. Because absolutely everyone has an undiagnosed neurosis, right? (Of course!) Why, it's the duty of lay, simple-minded Christians--not the individual's highly trained psychiatrist or psychological professional mind you--to cure their beloved ones of their "ailment." This is not only abuse, but gross stupidity! But what else can we expect from a cult that stands against higher education at four-year Universities and teaches its members it's better to receive a technical degree at a two-year community college. [Joke!]

Even more disturbing is a tactic that I've recently discovered, which I have dubbed "Covert Cyber-Bullying." Everyone knows narcissists are snoops. But few know of the extraordinary lengths narcissists will go to snoop on their victims. This type of covert abuse is now common in the workplace and academia. (Too common!) This form of abuse involves snooping and data collection of an individual's online presence and activities (i.e. their online footprint). This information is then used against the victim to harass, manipulate, and otherwise psychologically destabilize the intended target. One such objective outcome for the intended target could be to induce lone wolf activity through harassment/paranoia. Such information that is commonly data collected, include: movies you've watched on video streaming services such as Amazon or Netflix, the books you read on Kindle or other eReading apps, Facebook posts, YouTube comments, or any number of Social Media websites. Due to the technological hurdles of being able to read someone else's emails (and the fact that narcissists have only an average level of intelligence) this level of snooping is rarely employed to my knowledge. Why Amazon seems to be vulnerable to cyber snooping is as yet an unknown. But it appears that cyber snoops are able to obtain lists of the movies and books you frequent on Amazon, regardless of privacy settings! (To my knowledge, shopping history/purchases are inaccessible.) However, the vast majority of the data collected to target an individual seems to be from publicly accessible comments from Social Media websites.

Steps to take to reduce your online footprint: stay off all social media websites/services (if you have a social media account use a pseudonym!); never use your real name online (under any circumstances); delete accounts you no longer use; use a pseudonym for public email accounts (if you have an email account under your real name, use it sparingly); delete accounts you use less often and use fewer accounts (i.e. consolidate accounts).

A big F*ck You to Google, Amazon, and Facebook for not keeping our online data secure!!

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I think the bestest way to destroy these psychos is simply not to care and STOP FEEDING THEM WITH FEAR!!

With a human unable of empathy, I will show... NONE.

My philosophy with people in general is abuse the abuser, f...the f....cker and play the players.

(I can become a complete b...ch with true pigs lol.)

Someone mimicks you, then simply mimick back then;) 

There is also a common tactic you forgot to mention: the ones who try to invade your life and pretend they know better than you what's good for you and allowing themselves to behave in ways that represent a symbolic rape

I absolutely feel no compassion at all for these ones no matter how really sick they could be. Uh!

 

Just like Machete said:

"God forgives, not me"

 

All in all maybe what is best is to focus on oneself  with trust in yourself and  life in general I'd say!An everyday training at first that will become eventually a natural habit

 

love and cheers

 

Deneb

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On 2/20/2019 at 7:44 AM, Kelly jesse said:

The effect... isn’t it all on a vibrational match law of attraction stuff. 

Everyone wants to be seen but people don't want to be seen by the wrong people.... 

On 2/18/2019 at 2:47 PM, Broken_Mirror33 said:

Steps to take to reduce your online footprint: stay off all social media websites/services (if you have a social media account use a pseudonym!); never use your real name online (under any circumstances); delete accounts you no longer use; use a pseudonym for public email accounts (if you have an email account under your real name, use it sparingly); delete accounts you use less often and use fewer accounts (i.e. consolidate accounts).

How is that would be different from the actual life?

Every person is tied to something today whether it's their bank account, medical, rent, cell phone etc. [Oh, CELL PHONE is a big one] Not to mention social security number if you live in the US or passport/birth certificate  in general. There are more and more cameras popping on every stop with facial recognition. I don't know where they store so much information and who has time to watch it [Where do I apply just in case? I can probably not just "work" double shift while cooking dinner and cleaning at the same time but also get the entire family to join watching and bring extra income, Lol jokes aside]. It's becoming  harder and harder to get lost.

If a person wants to track another person they can do it off-line just as well and even worse. 

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6 hours ago, Kelly jesse said:
12 hours ago, Garnet said:

Everyone wants to be seen but people don't want to be seen by the wrong people.... 

By wrong people... what does that mean people that you don’t want to be seen by... you run into what you run in to.

No one is insured for life. Yes, it's possible to minimize the possibilities but that comes with a lot of restrictions. 

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What I meant is that minimizing the chance to be seen potentially comes with the number of people that can see the person. 

On the other hand, big celebrities go out with escort for extra security and peace of mind knowing that there is less chance to get kidnapped when eyes are watching.

On 2/23/2019 at 12:11 AM, Kelly jesse said:

It’s not much of a restriction to use another name for yourself on social media

I am not a Tech so i don't know how people manage multiple accounts and stay saint. I know when I look back at my handwritten history I am like "Oh WoW... " I feel that I have a strong arm and can literally go back and pick myself up, lol So that's a good thing in my opinion and if a hacker sees something there, God bless him. It's his heavy karma to carry on.

 

 

 

 

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And honestly, yes, while we need to be conscious of what we post online, but it's the reality is what concerns  me more especially when I see parents walking around with their faces glued to the screen while the children run around at a very unsafe distance. If this is a way to test LoA, then this people are on their way to a very rude awakening. 

Also wouldn't a separate account be linked to the same source/cell phone for ex? Unless a person has multiple devices, of course, then it maybe more difficult. 

Keep in mind at any given moment there are 1.8 thousand serial killers walking free on the streets among us. There are over 16 thousands serial rapists. So you have a greater chance of becoming a victim the less you pay attention  to your surroundings. Serial killers and such often use a person-drone to get information they need. This person-drone may not even have a clue that he is being used for information and to hide the tracks back to the original source. It can be any person you see from a random pizza delivery guy to someone you didn't notice on a street.

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