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My friends are on the verge of breaking up. Need help.

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My friends are on the verge of breaking up. Need help.

My two dear friends whom I both idolize and support so much are about to break up soon. The three of us have been friends for over 10 years and when they confessed their love for each other, I was super happy for them. They’ve been together for 5 years now and just about a year ago, one of them migrated abroad for family reasons. It wasn’t something he could control. 
Now, because of the distance, they’ve been constantly fighting and are now about to break up. I really think it’s a bad idea since all they need is to be with each other again even for a few days. To somehow “rekindle the spark.” 
I’ve been looking into some international dating blogs, dating shows, and even those dating talk shows that resemble “Dr.Phil” but to no avail. I can’t seem to convince any of them. So, people on the internet, please lend me your wisdom!
 

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Hello Flyn23,

You can not force anyone to love you or another person - not matter how much convincing you would put into it.

Now, in this situation you are trying to prevent a breakup - this is massive effort you are contemplating.

In this place you are putting yourself, you might end up being hated by both of your friend, by trying to influence them - maybe they will reject you.

Another important thing is: you can only change yourself - trying to change other people is not working.

Best would be to find your own happiness, not depending on them - set them free, don't think that only if they are together as a couple you could be happy.

Have a nice day

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10 hours ago, peileppe said:

Hello Flyn23,

You can not force anyone to love you or another person - not matter how much convincing you would put into it.

Now, in this situation you are trying to prevent a breakup - this is massive effort you are contemplating.

In this place you are putting yourself, you might end up being hated by both of your friend, by trying to influence them - maybe they will reject you.

Another important thing is: you can only change yourself - trying to change other people is not working.

Best would be to find your own happiness, not depending on them - set them free, don't think that only if they are together as a couple you could be happy.

Have a nice day

Sometimes I feel like some people just needs a push to the right direction. Although I get what you're saying. Have a nice day too!

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