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nova029

healing work shadows

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healing work shadows

well. i know that i am a healer and i really do love helping others. 

 

however. i always get into this trap of feeling like "who am I to give these people absolutes on how to help themselves" when I haven't gotten it altogether. I really wanted to give some advice just now, and I felt like it would have been really great too. I was empathetic but firm. Supportive yet decisive. All the good qualities in being there and helping someone to move forward. But I dont feel I can authentically help others see different alternatives when I haven't reached full success in them yet. You can imagine it is a very stuck position to be in. 

im not venting. im looking for suggestions and/or insight.

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i did want to give an update! i have been doing just that! 

 

i started just giving free dream interpretations to people, and i feel a lot more confident and happy about helping others. i think i was so caught up in the title of healer that i thought i had to go full out with everything or i wasnt being authentic. but just starting with something im comfortable with feels good! :)

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