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No Sexual desires

Hey guys, idk where to start but for the past two years I have experienced what many people call low testosterone which causes many health issues such as:

Sexual: reduced sex drive, sexual dysfunction, or erectile dysfunction
Whole body: fatigue or hot flashes
Muscular: muscle weakness or loss of muscle
Also common: absence of menstruation, delayed puberty, depression, infertility, irritability, mood swings, pot belly, or weight gain

Im experiencing all this symptoms  and I really don't know what is causing it, I really want to solve this problem in a natural way not with viagra or hormone replacement therapy. maybe this was caused by  past trauma? maybe denying parts of myself ? maybe my abandonment issues ? maybe I'm not connected to my divine masculine ? maybe of my insecurity?? I really don't know, I don't care about anything and if I do it quickly goes away, even when I get intimate with a girl I just have problems and then this one girl acted very distant after we had sex, maybe because i wast good enough ? I need help I want to expense the excitement of being with someone (which I do feel but very very little ). Is there anyone that can help me or point me in the right direction ? 

Thanks

P.s. I just turned 22 years old its not like I'm in my late 30s. in addition, I eat pretty healthy most of the time. 

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I have similar problems very recognisable. And Im finding out I havent been acting and doing what I want for a looooooooooong time. Beat myself up for it, constantly looking for things that needed to be fixed within me. As time goes by it seems there was nothing wrong with me, the natural me except for expressing whats inside. I shy away from oppertunities to stand up for myself and have a hard time enjoying myself. Why not do be what I want? I fear the consequences. Got kicked out of school 3 times when I did and life took a down turn after. Now Im setting up a site for energy healing cause I've been walking around with it for 18 years and basically did nothing with it. Weird huh ;) You probably have some hidden talents your not expressing either. IN short I beleive we need to do something daring thats inline with who we are and dont give a fuck about what anybody else thinks about it. The rush you feel when doing this will trigger all kinds of hormones in your body that will revive whatever were missing.

I wish us.. Good luck ;)  (hehe)

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On 6/14/2017 at 4:44 PM, Fullmetal said:

No Sexual desires

Hey guys, idk where to start but for the past two years I have experienced what many people call low testosterone which causes many health issues such as:

Sexual: reduced sex drive, sexual dysfunction, or erectile dysfunction
Whole body: fatigue or hot flashes
Muscular: muscle weakness or loss of muscle
Also common: absence of menstruation, delayed puberty, depression, infertility, irritability, mood swings, pot belly, or weight gain

Im experiencing all this symptoms  and I really don't know what is causing it, I really want to solve this problem in a natural way not with viagra or hormone replacement therapy. maybe this was caused by  past trauma? maybe denying parts of myself ? maybe my abandonment issues ? maybe I'm not connected to my divine masculine ? maybe of my insecurity?? I really don't know, I don't care about anything and if I do it quickly goes away, even when I get intimate with a girl I just have problems and then this one girl acted very distant after we had sex, maybe because i wast good enough ? I need help I want to expense the excitement of being with someone (which I do feel but very very little ). Is there anyone that can help me or point me in the right direction ? 

Thanks

P.s. I just turned 22 years old its not like I'm in my late 30s. in addition, I eat pretty healthy most of the time. 

On 10/19/2017 at 8:09 AM, sylvestertredgett said:

I have similar problems very recognisable. And Im finding out I havent been acting and doing what I want for a looooooooooong time. Beat myself up for it, constantly looking for things that needed to be fixed within me. As time goes by it seems there was nothing wrong with me, the natural me except for expressing whats inside. I shy away from oppertunities to stand up for myself and have a hard time enjoying myself. Why not do be what I want? I fear the consequences. Got kicked out of school 3 times when I did and life took a down turn after. Now Im setting up a site for energy healing cause I've been walking around with it for 18 years and basically did nothing with it. Weird huh ;) You probably have some hidden talents your not expressing either. IN short I beleive we need to do something daring thats inline with who we are and dont give a fuck about what anybody else thinks about it. The rush you feel when doing this will trigger all kinds of hormones in your body that will revive whatever were missing.

I wish us.. Good luck ;)  (hehe)

Absence of sexual desire is the absence of life force energy itself. We are energetically intense beings that must meet our needs. Whether these needs are to express our sexuality, voice, or skills. Sylvester is exactly right! You have to feel deep down what you truly want and go for it. If you start suppressing your desires, then apathy and depression kick in leading to low testosterone/low energy. It gives you a state of mind that seems like you can't get what you want, or "the Universe is against me." Your trauma might be unworthiness. All of these are conditioned beliefs from childhood/teachers/parents/church. If you feel like a bad person for going after or doing what you want, you need to understand the root cause/core reason why. Is it because you'll feel guilty? (Then what beliefs would make you feel that way?) Are you worried about what your family/friends might think? Do the completion process to find out what it is. Watch more channeling videos and read more of Teal's work to understand the laws of the Universe. We have free will here and there is no God judging you. You cannot make a mistake, or ever get this life done to "perfection." 

Remember, low energy/emotion means that you're not in alignment with your higher self/source stream. It's telling you you're off track for thinking or believing whatever in the moment (it's a guidance system)

High energy/good emotions/vibrant sexuality and creativity means you are. 

I would recommend you watch Teal's videos on: Apathy, Meet Your Needs!, How do I discover self worth?, and I can't trust the universe (I feel like God is against Me)

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You can start by taking 100-200mg of DIM daily, (make sure it does not have soy filler)  DIM is a natural estrogen blocker that comes from cruciferous vegetables. Heavy lifting, along with anything that gets your heart beating with positive excitement won't hurt either. Try and make yourself do something creative everyday even if it's just doodling in a notebook.

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19 hours ago, sylvestertredgett said:

Full metal, Do you have a knot under your navel too? like some emotional pain freekin always there??

Hi, I'm sorry if you find me interfering, just wanted to say I feel the same, I associate it with guilt/shame and sexuality /passion, on the other side of the story. It needs to circulate, it needs to be freed, it needs to live, it needs to be. How do YOU deal with it?

I don't see how a smile like yours and fire around (avatar :) ) can lack sexual desires or testosterone, at least once in your life :)

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On 12/16/2017 at 7:12 PM, sylvestertredgett said:

Full metal, Do you have a knot under your navel too? like some emotional pain freekin always there??

Hey! sorry for taking so long to respond, now that you mention it, yes, at first I didn't notice it. but, its like this little tiny bit of anxiety that is always there sometimes I feel it more than others but I think its for the most part there

Ill try to be more active to inform y'all on my development 

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Sorry I forgot about this topic and just scrolled by looking fr a free download 😈  Im really struggeling with this safe to say this is my lifes ultimate demon. Im still dealing with:

- a TON of surpressed Anger/grief - Supressed expression of my sexuality/power/confidence/intelligence and all that is true to my heart. I blame the world. Im extremely into the paranormal and spirituaity/consciousness I love being creative but whenever I express these things friends family they all treat me like an idiot. I had an outer body experience I floated in space and cant sit down and talk about it seriously with anyone I care about. It was the most magical experience of my life durng a time I was going through hell and no one (fckin) cares..

I have an ego that seems hell bent to present itself as a good boy achieverish fake happy guy. Ive really got that one nailed down. Even knowing this doesnt just turn off the switch its so deep and its been with me so long im numb. It scares me. My brothers show the same symptoms. 

Never really had a chance to come oiut and say I feel like shit because of etc etc. Seems not a single soul is willing to understand. Ive looked for help many many times. This really got to me and my dark side didnt come out the right healthy way. Struggeling with depression for years. Learned to live with it. 

My insecurities are the pain of my existence. I have to admit painfully they are a symptom of me keeping the true self buried inside. So i should be thankful, some day. Choosing social acceptance over your own. Harsch. How did I get so of touch? 

 

I believe we all got the root ofthis problem very quickly I almost cant believe it :) If the knot in your abdoman is what you got you are surpressing yourself. I turned into a tasteless good boy with no backbone. Ive chosen to flip the script and go heavy on exploring my darkside. Heres a link of what I mean: 

If you google "discovering your dark side" you get Ok articles. Still looking for a rolmodel that carries that energy like a m#therfckr 😈 to really get the feeling of it again. 

Thx for listening this reaaaaally helped. I shoudk do this more often. I feel different. 

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@sylvestertredgett 

just say what you mean/think, feel, embrace your judgmental side, and powerful sexuality, mostly judgmental.

i am this way too, i completely see what you're saying, and i understood i am very very judgmental, when you suppress that, you get the tension in stomach. Also, very intuitive, very. The judgment is towards people who lose authenticity, who give up authenticity, majority of people on this planet, and you are the result of that. You are a result, a mirror of the collective subconscious, if you had all those spiritual experiences and still try to be a good boy, its very tough, because you become even more sensitive and perceptive, which makes you a match to different kinds of people... I also relate to the suppressed anger aspect, same

i also heard teal say children who lose a parent, have big amount of anger and/or sadness, from one side to another. I belong in that category and wasnt aware of it fully until i heard this... Now society doesn't allow that, and what do you do? suppress., turn it inward... . 

I completely empathize with you and wish you good luck 

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