VeronicaEcheverria

Will people start rejecting me if I increase my vibrational frecuency /energy/self-knowledge process/etc ?

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I'm not sure if it's fear.. it's just happening. 

Ever since I started watching " ask teal ", or reading Deepak Chopra, and staying home meditading instead of going out " partying" , my friends have been keeping their distance away from me and no longer invite me. 

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1 hour ago, VeronicaEcheverria said:

staying home meditading instead of going out " partying" , my friends have been keeping their distance away from me and no longer invite me.

from your story, it looks like you've wanted space to do your thing and you've got it. where is the rejection?

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Have fun with your friends.  Having fun is important

Look for connection.  "Feel with" your friends

Watch out for giving off any sort of "holier than thou" attitude.  Remember to stay humble.   Even though you are on a spiritual journey, you don't have all the answers.   Once we think we have all the answers, it does not take long until life clearly demonstrates that we don't even know all the questions yet. 

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Hi, I have read about this ( and unfortunately experienced it in an extreme case)  it seems to be a way of keeping the " spiritually enlightened" section of the population separate from the rest so that they can be more easily manipulated through their ignorance of the manipulations of spiritual beings . Be careful about trying to force your views on others or they may use the pharmakeia ritual on you and blame you for all of their  problems and kick you out of town .

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It's a tricky one because on the one hand, unconscious people can be a detriment to your efforts of becoming more aware as a person and focusing on the deep things in life (without being holier than though ofc as scott mentions)

On the other hand, connection with people is important, you may still like your friends or you may stop resonating with them because your interests are changing and want new friends 

Ultimately, your life is unique and your journey in life is unique. This means it is only you who can decide what is right for you at any point of time for your life. One of the lifelong tasks we have is to reconcile things, you will need to keep practicing reconciling friends and spirituality. And the balance you need in this area will change depending on the point in time 

 

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On 11-4-2017 at 6:16 AM, VeronicaEcheverria said:

Will people start rejecting me if I increase my vibrational frecuency /energy/self-knowledge process/etc ?

Is it normal if " my friends" begin to reject me , ever since I began my " enlightnment process"? 

People wouldnt reject you because of increase of ernergy/vibrational level that should attrackt them actualy.

What can cause rejection is if you explain or tell them things what is not in their reality. This creates a distance.

You have 3 things that make up a the level or closeness of a relation. 

Which are communication, affinity and reality.

The more real it is to the other one the better he or she understands it. The easier it is to talk the closer one feels.

But all 3 depend on each other if one fails or deteriorates the relationship will be less

The other site increase reality increases communication and affinity increases closer relationship

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I wouldn't take it personally. It's basically just that you don't enjoy doing the same things any longer. Imagine if you were a drug addict, and decided to stop using drugs, and instead started working out and taking care of yourself; you'd probly end up alienating yourself from the friends you used to do drugs with...not cause they don't like you, per say, but cause you no longer enjoy the same things. There would be a transitional period, and you'd probly end up meeting some new like-minded friends...at the gym maybe.

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Hi VeronicaEcheverria,

There is always two sides to a relationship between two people. Sometimes, what may be perceived as “rejection” by one person, is something different to the other. Now at age 53, I’ve seen a lot of relationships come and go, and some come back again. Sometimes, there is clear intention by one person to “reject” another, but more often people just grow together or grow apart, and I think that is just a normal part of life.

As you become more conscious, with higher vibrational frequency, energy, and self-knowledge, you may indeed find yourself growing apart from some of the people who have been friends in the past at an increased rate. Generally speaking, these will probably not be the people you, yourself, resonate with that much, or you may find that you yourself are feeling less of a connection with them, and wanting to let go of the relationship. If there is a particular person you think you will miss, I would suggest trying to have a conversation with them. Sometimes, people will mistakenly think that you are not as interested in them, and think you rejecting them, even as you think they are rejecting you. It can be a misunderstanding as simple as a missed email, or something trivial like that.

Society often encourages the idea of having many friends, but as we become more deep in our thinking, most of us also want friendships that reflect that depth. These tend to take more time. Plus you may be wanting more time on your own for meditation, study, etc. So your total number of friends may go down even as the friendships that you keep, or gain, have more significance in your life. You will probably find new friendships forming too, though this can take some effort. While participating in events or activities that you enjoy, I would suggest looking to see if you feel drawn to talking to anyone. Someone you might resonate with could be more shy than the people you have spent time with in the past, so you may find that you need to be the one to start up the conversation.

Even when you are rejected, either by someone you know, or by someone you are trying to get to know, try not to take it personally. I’m not saying that this something you do. I bring it up because it is a mistake that a lot of people make, including myself at times, especially when I was younger. If someone does reject you, or is simply not interested, it can simply be because they don’t appreciate what you have to offer. But that can say more about them, then it says about you. In any event, as long as you are treating people with kindness and being authentic, I expect you will not have problems having as many friends in your life as you wish to have. With regards to myself, as soon as I have time, I plan to get more involved with the Buddhist community because I love the teachings their too, and think I would have more to talk about with people in such a community.

However, TealSwan.com makes it possible to see where in the world other members are, for those members that share that. Plus going to TealSwan Synchronization Workshops and local chapter groups can be a great place to meet people. But again, remember that a lot of people are shy, so you may need to be outgoing. That increases the risk of “rejection”, but if you don’t take it personally, it will not matter much. The very nature of what it means to be "friends" shifts for a lot of people as they experience more unconditional love for themselves and others, and practice more spiritual ways of thinking about others, including things like non-attachment. In that sense, the way you experience friendship may change considerably. Teal Swan did a great video on “How To Connect With Someone” which I recommend watching if you have not seen it already. I’ve provided a link below. I know this has been a rather long answer to a simple question, so I hope this has been helpful and not way off from what is wanted. I wish you the best. - Aaron

How To Connect With Someone -Teal Swan-
https://youtu.be/X-SdqaGS_jc

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Hi VeronicaEcheverria,

Below are links to some more of Teal’s videos on the topic of relationships. There is a lot to know about relationships. Again, I wish you the best. - Aaron

Personal Boundaries vs. Oneness (How to Develop Healthy Boundaries) - Teal Swan
https://youtu.be/hnKU-hL2Uag

How To Say No - Teal Swan
https://youtu.be/bCRxzjp0MNw

How To Overcome The Fear Of Conflict - Teal Swan- -
https://youtu.be/RSzjnJ8_1W8

Fear is Good (The Benefit of Fear) - Teal Swan
https://youtu.be/jM-b9Dej-AI

Why You Keep Attracting the 'Wrong' Person in Relationships
https://youtu.be/uEeKJUnm7eg

The Sacred Directive of Relationships - Teal Swan -
https://youtu.be/7c8ZVU9lwOY

Get On The Same Page (Relationship Advice) - Teal Swan-
https://youtu.be/40M2g6qECDg

The #1 Relationship Obstacle (And How To Dissolve It) - Teal Swan -
https://youtu.be/2vAOyEVKJ8M

Stop Trying to Love Them and Start Trying to Understand Them - Teal Swan -
https://youtu.be/pr0SguyqkyQ

To Help or Not to Help? (Helping Others) -Teal Swan-
https://youtu.be/XVhraNCkBnY

"The Great Rescue" of Relationships - Teal Swan
https://youtu.be/11jfXcQpncY

10 Tips For a Successful Relationship - Teal Swan
https://youtu.be/F6fXUPhrq7I

Spirituality 2.0 (How to Set Yourself Free) - Teal Swan -
https://youtu.be/UvglEmkhpzY

Spirituality 3.0 (The Path of Choice) -Teal Swan-
https://youtu.be/h4UcPVPtOa0

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