Marilojka

Impotence

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Impotence

I have mixed feelings. I try to be patient. But I'm so frustrated. It's been so long and I find myself thinking we will never have intercourse again. That gets me spiraling down. He acts like it isn't happening which gets me even more frustrated. I can't  help but wonder if it's all my fault? Did I manifest it? Because I didn't always want sex before he was impotent. He wanted it all the time. Now he doesn't. Or we won't even go there because of the let down. And for me there's only so much oral. It's not the same. It's a very difficult subject to talk about. I know that ya and for him as well. I don't want to be selfish. It's always on my mind. I fee so deprived and depressed. I don't know what to do ☹️

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When I read this, it doesn't sound like it is about the loss of sex drive, but the loss of connection. Having someone you love, always wanting to make a 'connection', to become one with you, suddenly lose that ability.

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Sea is full of fish...please venture out. I tried the same thing and it works. Otherwise bad memories will always haunt the relation. Create good memories outside

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