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re programming sexuality

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re programming sexuality

I hope Teal does a video on this subject...

so many of us have have been subjected to a twisted version of sexuality. one that is far from heart based sacredness.  so for those of us who find ourselves responding sexually to things such as porn or things that our heart does not resonate with .. how do we clear this programing ?

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There is nothing wrong with porn, seriously.  Again, it doesn't even directly have anything to do with if a person is being authentic in sexual situation or not..  some mutually don't care but STILL they manage to have alot of fun together.   It may not be your life but much of what i see IS passionate.  even on the cliche side of the profession.  We all got fantasies and interests.. This is just one of those avenues of interest.  doesn't have to be your cup of tea, yes?

If it's not for you for whatever reason you make for yourself.. then simply stay away?  lol  wouldn't want to say avoidance since nothing good comes from that..  Also think of what Teal just said in the recent video i shared on Haidar1996 's topic where he shared that vid of teal helping somebody out with trump issues.  i for one would have simply showed that girl all the things that prove that he will be lovely.

I realize the last bit was random but still... did you watch the video i am describing?  it's the last one i posted into that topic.

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I have found that a good way to get this problem out of your system is to realise that sex and intimacy are two separate things that happen to compliment each other. You can have one without the other, what we need to do is take a good hard look at what we really need from a partner and communicate that. Our society was built on the unfortunate premise that sex is bad, talking about it, looking at it, enjoying it were all considered a detriment to your moral fiber, so even today it is seen as something dirty or shameful. This caused things that once were considered perfectly normal and healthy, Homosexuality, Domination/Submission paradigms, Sexual toys, things that have been documented as common in societies as old as ancient greece, to become seen as taboo and unhealthy. This urge we all seem to have, to watch others engage in sexual acts dates back to the time we were still living in caves and huts, there was not much in the way of privacy if you think about it.

With this understanding, the sexual activity seen in porn can be seen for what it originally was, a protest Using newer technology of overly restrictive social standards, this was human beings trying to express human needs in a world that is still to this day resistant to them. As we raise our vibrations and open ourselves to what the universe, and this human existence are really about, we will see these acts as less taboo and more everyday, with the stigma goes the unhealthy elements that come with it. 

For the most part, It is not Us that need re programming, The content needs to be altered to be more authentic to the human needs being expressed, but our interest is a natural thing as old as humanity itself.

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"I have said that man is afraid of both sex and death. That's why they are taboos. No one talks about sex and no one talks about death. We remain silent about those two things. We have remained silent for centuries and centuries. They are taboo subjects, they should not even be mentioned. The moment they are mentioned, something starts trembling within us.
 
"It seems that there is a deep repression. That's why we have created substitute words. In the western world they do not say 'We are having sex.' They say 'We are making love.' It's a substitute word – and false, because love is a totally different dimension. Having sex is having sex, it is not making love. Love may include sex, but love has an altogether different quality.
 
"We never talk directly about death. If someone dies, we use substitute words. We say he has gone to the Father, or he has gone to heaven. Death is never faced directly.
 
"We have created many false phenomena around death and sex. If two people are going to be married, sex is not even mentioned – and they are going to be married for sex! We have created a great illusion around marriage, but the bare, naked fact is sex. We have created a ritual, a great ritual of marriage, just to hide the fact. Why?
 
"Why is there a taboo about only these two things? They are deeply related. The reason for their relationship is this: first, you are born out of sex, birth is sex. And birth and death are two poles of one thing. In birth, death is hidden. That's why man became aware of the deep relationship between sex and death. Death cannot happen without sex, just as birth cannot happen without sex."
 
 
 
i suggest you to read "sex-matter" by osho..very good book
 
 
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