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Sickness

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Sickness

 

Hi There, Im new. I'm curious about the process to deal with someone who only received love, affection, attention from parents who were otherwise emotionally absent when the child was sick or did not feel well. I think there is a subconscious desire or agreement with disease in order to be loved. Would it be a matter of connecting with the inner child to some how imagine receiving love for who they are? How would this be dealt with, in regards to the completion process. There is something about physical touch and bonding, and that was only received when sick or unwell. How does someone make a connection to receive that without having to be depressed, sick, or helpless. Thank you for your input. 

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Hi,

Seems like you have learned that you only recieve love and attention when you are sick. This is also in line with the victim mentality. You keep yourself feeling down hoping that that is what will give you some sort of love. In terms of the completion process, you can speak to your inner child and give her love unconditionally. Go back into your first memories of being sick and be with your inner child in sickness and even in times when she is not sick. If it will help you can even see your parents giving your inner child love while she is healthy. You can also have other beings there to nurture her in health. 

Hope this helps! Sending love to you and your inner child ❤️

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