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Who am I seeking approval and validation from and why?

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From "100 Of The Most Powerful Questions You Can Ask Yourself"

Nothing has the power to completely alter perspective and therefore your thoughts and actions and life quite like a question. Inquiry leads to understanding. The quality of the answers we arrive at, correspond directly to the quality of question we ask. The better the question, the better the answer. One of the most important things to realize about a question is that a person learns far, far more from the process and work involved in answering a question than from the answer itself. This is why spiritual teachers throughout history (including myself) have tended to pose so many questions to their students rather than to simply offer a direct answer. For this reason, I have selected a collection of 100 of the most powerful questions that you can ask yourself.

Make sure to take time to carefully consider each question that is posed in order to meaningfully answer them. And don’t forget to come back to these questions again and again throughout your life, especially whenever you are feeling stuck, because the answers will most likely change over the course of your life and also cause you to change your course in life.

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Everyone, to have my existence validated, and feel like I deserve to be here, otherwise I deserve to suffer and die? Like Im constantly looking around to see if the light is still green or not, whether the right to exist is still here or not 

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My friends partners when I'm in a relationship my mum and dad . Why because growing up i was conditioned by my father that I was dumb stupid not going to be nothing in life can't do anything right so now I need validation to feel good about what im doing and that in doing the right thing

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Men (my twin flame.... I feel upset because now I feel that TFs are idolatrous) so I choose to consider him a soulmate, .... I'm practicing detachment from people. my friends my mother, my cousins. 

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Friends, because I easily feel thrown off and unsure of myself. 

Someone can break my leg without any reason. And if I'm beeing gaslighted on top of that. And get no validation from outside that I've been treated badly. I start behaving like everythings in order. And I dont do anything about it, I just go on carrying the pain. Silently on the inside.

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I dont know. People in general are not my true focus right not. It is hard to get validation for something that is intangible.  I want to validated by my actions and the wieght f my heart.

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Myself.

 

I want to feel comfortable being honest with myself and committing to my own happiness.

 

I want validation from the entire world that I won't be abandoned when I do so.

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I think some father figure. Someone like God or Jesus or some other Guru. Or Dumbledore.

First of all I'd be happy to have a relationship with a fatherXD

I wish I had had a better version of the father I had. Like 80% more than he was. Cause he was violent or absent. Sometimes he would also to the contrary slip into a spiritual role of love peace and harmony. 

Only problem he never understood that massage.

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A guy Im having a crush on... Because I want him to like me and side with me and Possitively own MeXD. And because I really do like him. 

I simply want him to like me, and if he doesn't see me for who I am. And sides with that other person, who's playing zero sume games and gaslights me constantly and has hurt my life.(and is acting just like my flying monkey brothers and like a bully) only because the truth isn't pleasant and what she wants it to be... If he sides with that other person, I will have a hard time getting any closer with him or opening up emotionally. It's crucial. I like him. (in a very authentic way, without trying to, or beeing on the run from something, or on the look out) I don't know there's alot of synchronicity between us just naturally Attunement, "chemistry" kind of. And that's absolutely rare to me. I feel like liking someone for real, who possibly could like me too. I like his heart, I can see his heart in the things he does, the way he moves. I do trust him to be righteous enough to stand with what is true and right. But in this case I can't prove anything, time could make things come to light... But some things allways stay under the sand... If he doesn't see this whole situation the way it actually is, I feel like he doesn't see me. And I don't want a relationship like that.

Well I don't even know if he's actually single..

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