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My mother.. 

The actual problem is the lies I got fed and I took up into my system. 

But that's alot deeper, and harder to disapher, it feels like lurky murky waters. 

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I blame the food for being cancerous but also myself for not being able to do it on my own and resource my own foods with my own money because I feel that green is the root of greed. That and my uncle and aunts are replacing my mom and dad and that frustrates me and makes me distracted, I feel from my current emotions that I feel that even writing about my anxiety isn’t going to save me in the long run. And how my inner child work is just an escape and how my mind uses the world to keep me safe. I played it real safe and I blame myself most of all. 🙃🫠

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On 1/9/2021 at 4:33 PM, Vile said:

my MOOOOOM! she sucks....😶😬😓😅


On 8/1/2021 at 5:47 PM, SilverKatie said:

I blame closed doors that I feel I have closed.

I blame my actions and how they have limited me. I blame myself for not acting also.




On 8/20/2021 at 7:11 AM, Emre said:

my mom and dad, and aunt



On 4/7/2022 at 12:09 PM, LucyMad said:

I blame people and my past

And I blame myself.


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I blame society at large a system Wich is anti-human, institutions, people who work in those institutions, most of all unwise and emotionally unintelligent people, and I blame my parents. And I blame myself, I blame my siblings and I blame God and Satan and life itself, I blame my ancestors for beeing in the place I am, having all this Irresponsibility to deal with and be made responsible for. 

I blame people who have a hero complex and mistake that for actual compassion, I blame people who see others through stiff stereotypes without even knowing them and beeing gaslighting and hurtful, I blame people who are cold and not an inch attuned, manipulative and full of themselves and overuse their authoritative power. I blame people who are just bystanders, people who cling to those in power and make hurtful comments. I blame people who use their chances (mis)using vulnerable people in need, only for their own sake, no matter how anyone feels or what consequences people have to deal with. And this makes me really angry. I blame people who don't own their responsibility, and deflect. 

I blame people who lie, lie that they are with me, lie that they see me, lie that they own my best interests, when they do not at all, not an inch. I blame it on that my parents didn't love me. That my mother only ever had her own best interests in mind nothing else. I blame that my father took no interest at all, whatsoever not an inch. And I blame the manipulation and the lies, I confused as love, cause that's all I received, and it made fall for it throughout my life way too many times. And made me hurt again and again. 

I blame people who are 0 attuned and overuse authoritative power. I blame people who forced themselves onto us, fully ignoring any boundaries, threatening us severely, and made everything about themselves having their needs met, taking my attention away from where it was actually needed and wanted in my life. Feeling utterly powerless, traumatized and made me have to Splitt even more, more than I ever wanted or intended to. I blame predatory people who fall prey on vulnerable people in need. I blame people who just stand by and do nothing to help and feel like: not their life, not their problem suit yourself. People who don't have a full schedule at all and love to do fun stuff and shit chat, but can't even once step up, when someone is on the edge. I blame that this is all I get from beeing sorrounded by other humans, opening up and trying to heal aspects of myself. Emotionaly, spiritual unevolved and insecure and dangerous crowd of people. I blame it on everyone without an inch experience having authoritative power over me beeing able to tell me what to do, also unable to actually give me a hand. Useless people. 

I blame it on everyone wanting to be a smart ass and feel powerful in this regards but totally uninterested to do any actual hands on work. 

I blame myself for blindly following a rule, I learned as a child. Wich is saying the truth, regardless weither it puts me in a bad and and unsafe place and I have nothing to gain from it, and I literally know the person in front of me is absolutely the wrong person to talk with. Nothing to gain Except for a moral high-ground, Wich is a concept you have to indoctrinate yourself with first. Wich is of 0 worth in actuality. 

I blame religion for the negative impact it has on people's lives. 

I blame unhealed trauma. I blame people who are unwilling to question anything about their lives. As said before, Irresponsibility. 

I blame people who gaslight to make things just disappear Wich they don't, they only get worse. I hate people who use anger and shame and blame towards people who openly say something is going wrong and are asking for help. I blame people who scapegoat. 

Yall put me to shit, so here I'm put to shit. Yall want to make me alone responsible. You can do that for yourself as you already do, but you won't get me to accept that as truth. Not with what I've experienced not ever. Oh yes and that makes me so unworkable. What a misters. Someone who's been forsaken by everyone around them. And again the root cause of everything, shure. Society and people are unworkable, and I'm unworkable too, all of this makes it so that I rarely ever even reach and work on my actual problems. Wich long to be dealt with. 


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Perfectly understandable for everyone with 2 brain cells, how you got so hurt, you ventured into rage, went to shit and became destructive. 

Only thing you can doseparate yourself consciously (in certain ways) from others. And own responsibility where YOU do have responsibility.

Become open to healing. Have faith and have courage. 


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